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THE ESSENTIAL OF LOVE 1 TIMOTHY 3:1-13 Series: Essentials of the Church - Part Five Pastor Stephen Muncherian February 7, 2010 |
We’re
going to start with a
short video clip to help us get focused.
As
you’re
watching
this
think
about what’s essential. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zBnNfTa0_Jc With
friends like that… How
essential are essentials? On
past Sundays we’ve talked
about Merced being a broken city.
We’ve
agreed that Jesus is the only answer for the
brokenness of this city. That
our living out and sharing the Gospel is
crucial. The bottom line
of why we as a
congregation - why we’re here. We’ve
been talking about
essentials - the essentials of the church. What
is
absolutely
essential
for
us if we’re to be the congregation that God
has called us to be. To
be a congregation
that God can use in taking His gospel into the places
where we live
life. Where people are
hurting to know for
Jesus. Point
being that if we lack an
essential - or we’re out of balance - emphasizing one
essential over
another - or just kind of sliding by - living the
status quo - hanging
on to our comfort zone - really not put our heart and
soul into doing
what is essential - we’re setting ourselves up for
failure as a
congregation - failure to be who God has called us
together to be. Which
isn’t something to take be
taken lightly. “Oh well.” Failure
on our part means people
are still living on a trajectory towards hell. Failure
on
our
part
means
continued brokenness in the lives of people we deeply
care about. Failure means
that people will
look at the church and see us and not God. Christians
may
even
give
up
on the church as a place of security - nurture -
growth - as a congregation to serve God with. The
reason essentials are
essential is because they’re essential. Over
the past few Sundays we’ve
been looking at Paul’s first letter to Timothy. We’ve
looked
at
the
essentials
of love, faith, Godly men, and Godly women. Today
we’re coming to The Essential of Godly Leadership.
Let’s
try
that
together, “The
essential of Godly leadership.” Please
turn with me to 1 Timothy
3. When
Paul writes this letter to
Timothy - Timothy is pastoring in Ephesus. Ephesus
was a large city. A
crossroads
and
port
city. A tourist
destination. A political
and religious
center. It was city where
sin was part of
the culture. Prostitution
was part of
their religion. Satanists,
witches,
worship of a Mother Goddess of the Earth - practices
we see in the New
Age Movement today - all were openly a part of the
scene in Ephesus. Maybe
called
by
different
names. But very much a
part of Ephesian culture.
The entire city indulged in
sin - so much so that we could say that sin was
politically correct. Sound
familiar? In
Ephesus it was hard to be a
Christian. In the church -
there
was a great need for Godly
leadership. But, in
looking in 1 Timothy
and elsewhere in
Scripture - we’ve been seeing that that - for
the most part - the
leadership of the Ephesian church was as corrupt as
the society they
were living in. The
leadership of the Ephesian
church is described as men who had rejected their
faith. They’d become
shipwrecked spiritually. They
were teaching all kinds of strange doctrines that
mixed human philosophy and different religious beliefs
and traditions
in with the Gospel. Does
that sound
familiar? With all these
interfaith
movements and confusion
about
what
gospel
really
is? The
result was that the church
was being led around and around in fruitless
discussions over secondary
issues. It was lacking in
purpose and
vision - in Godly direction.
They were focused on
themselves. People were
dying spiritually and hurting each
other. The one thing the
church wasn’t
doing was penetrating Ephesus with the Gospel.
Before
we go on, we need to
understand what Paul means by “the office
of overseer.” Many people
have the idea that Paul is talking
about pastors, priests, bishops, or some kind of
church governing
structure with a professional clergy at the top - or
seemingly at the
top. Professional clergy do the
job of the ministry while lay
people cough up the money to support them. The
Greek word for “overseer” is
“episkopos.” Same
word
we
get
“episcopal”
from. Looking at
the Episcopal Church - the Anglican Church - we can
see how the
Episcopalians have adopted this professional top down
model of
leadership. A
professional hierarchy
ruling over the church. What
Paul is describing is
different. In
fact Paul could have very easily
stepped into that kind of role of leadership and yet
over and over
again he continually rejected it. In
the
New Testament there’s never a
description of this massive professional top down
governing structure over a church or churches that some
churches have fallen
into. That structure just doesn’t
exist in Scripture. In
reality that “top down” structure - professional
clergy verses laity -
all that is antithetical to the whole teaching
concerning Spiritual
Gifts - how God gifts and desires to use each one of
us together in His
ministry. Overseers could
be someone with
the gift pastor or teacher or administration or helps
or mercy or any
other spiritual gift. “Episkopos”
- “overseer” is a technical term that describes a
position or office in the church - a leadership role
in the
congregation. The
ministry description of
that office is someone
who has oversight
over the ministry of a congregation by watching over it -
guarding it -
shepherding it - guiding it - protecting the ministry
of the
congregation. Not someone
who exercises
ruling authority over the congregation. Are
we together? Closely
related to “overseer” - used almost interchangeably
in Scripture is the
word “elder.” The
Greek
word
is
“presbuterios”
which is where we get our English word
“presbyterian.” “Presbuterios”
was how the
Greeks translated the Hebrew word “zaqen” which
literally meant “to
have a beard.” Point
being is that an elder is
someone who is elderly - at least old enough to have a
beard. To be an elder was
to have a position of
leadership in the Hebrew nation - a position of
leadership that was
based on age and experience. Someone
that
had been around the block a few times. An
elder - someone who was older
- became an elder - leader in the nation - as people
recognized their
gifts of leadership and wisdom and justice as well has
their age. An “elder” was
set apart to administer justice, settle disputes, and
guide people
under his charge. The
elders were the
counselors of the king - the governing council of the
town - the heads
and leaders of the tribes of Israel.
In
New Testament times they were the members of the
Sanhedrin - the Hebrew
Supreme Court. Still
with me? This will get
clearer. I hope. Putting all that together -
elders and
overseers - an overseer is someone that the people
recognize has having
the elder experience necessary to put them into this
position - this
office of oversight - as an overseer - in the nation -
or in the New
Testament - the church. When Paul writes
to Titus - who
was pastoring on the island of Crete - Paul tells
Titus to appoint
“elders” to the office of “overseer.” (Titus 1:5-9)
What
Paul
is
saying
is
that within the local church God is raising up men -
“elders” - to this position of -
“overseer.” When we
want to find people qualified to be
overseers - we need to look for elders. We
need to also observe
that there’s no example anywhere in Scripture of an
elder being a women. There
were leaders - prophetesses and Deborah
who was a judge and Esther who played a huge role in
Hebrew history -
women who for a time gave counsel or took roles of
leadership in the
nation. But the elders -
those who led the
nation in that role - the elders were men. That
fits the pattern of
Scripture from the Fatherhood of God through the
headship of Adam - the
patriarchs - Abraham, Isaac, Jacob - through Hebrew
history down to
Jesus - Son of God - Son of Man - Head of the Church.
In
the New Testament there were
a number of women disciples. Numbers
of
women followed Jesus closely as He traveled around
Judea. Some were His
close associates. They
were
respected. They were
honored. They were
integral to the ministry. Later,
women
came
to
have
significant roles of
ministry in the church. Jesus
could have appointed a
women to be one or all of His Twelve Apostles. But
He
didn’t. When the church
came to replace
Judas - they choose Matthias - a man.
That
pattern is consistent through out Scripture. All
that may make some people
uncomfortable. But if
Godly men would step
up to the plate taking leadership in the congregation
- sacrificial
headship - as Godly men - women would feel a whole lot
more secure and
we’d probably have a whole lot less uncomfortableness. Bottom
line: Elders
were spiritually
mature
men
who
had
proven
themselves over and over again - and so gained the
respect to be called “elders” -
to be placed into this role - this office of overseer
in the church. Paul
writing to Timothy -
pasturing in a difficult city - with a church focused
on itself -
overrun with men claiming to be teachers who were
teaching all kinds of
nonsense - how was the church suppose to weed through
all those “wannbe”
overseers - to get the right men in the
right place - to avoid spiritual disaster - to move
forward taking the
gospel into Ephesus - Paul writes about the essential
of Godly
leadership. How
do we recognize men
qualified for the office of overseer?
Who
qualifies for the office? If
we - here at
Creekside - if we encourage people into leadership who
are not
spiritually qualified to be in leadership - it’ll be a
disaster for
them - for us - for the ministry of the gospel -
failure. Verse
2: The Qualifications
For Overseers. Let’s
say
that
together, “The
qualifications for overseers.”
How do we recognize the men God
is raising up to spiritual leadership. Walk
with me through these. Verse 2: An overseer,
then, must be above reproach Stand
up for God and we become a target. Godly
leaders will be accused of wrongdoing.
Above reproach means the accusation has no
basis - it
won’t stick. It doesn’t
mean that an
overseer hasn’t ever done anything wrong. We’d
all
be
trouble
if
that was true. But, it
means that the sin has been dealt with honestly -
openly - moving the
man forward in the pursuit of godliness. Next
- The overseer
is the husband of one wife There’s
some discussion about
what this means. What
about a divorced man
or a widower or a single man? The
culture of Ephesus was kind
of like ours today - where the commitment of marriage
didn’t mean a
whole lot. At least they
still realized
that marriage was between a man and a women - sort of. People went from marriage to
marriage to marriage to
marriage without thinking about it to much. People
had
mistresses. Prostitution
was a way of
life. Paul’s
point is that a man with
elder material is not bouncing flippantly from
marriage to marriage. He’s
living by the Biblical commands for what
marriage is. He’s not an
adulterer.
He’s a one woman
man - committed to one woman - his wife - whom he
loves sacrificially. The overseer
is temperate - which means he’s calm - not
jumping from one
thing to another - prudent - meaning self controlled
- able to keep
his mouth shut - respectable - he has order
and purpose to
his life - hospitable - he’s open to
strangers and promotes fellowship in the
church. The overseer
is able to teach There
are godly men who fulfill
the other requirements but they’re not gifted to
teach. Overseers teach. That’s crucial because
overseers are to
be able to explain the Scriptures and to correct those
who misuse or
misunderstand them. They watch over
the congregation
by keeping the congregation focused on God’s truth. There’s
a second idea here too -
overseers must be teachable. In
order to
teach they need to first be in the Scriptures
themselves - growing in
their own relationship with God - open to
instruction. Going
on - verse 3: The overseer is not addicted to wine or
pugnacious - meaning violent - maybe as result of
being drunk - but gentle - desiring to
work through
problems in a reasonable way - peaceable - he’s not stirring
up
trouble
in
the
congregation - free from
the love of money - not free of
money - but free
from being consumed by pursuing wealth. Verse
4: He must be
one who manages his own household well, keeping his
children under
control with all dignity (but if a man does not know
how to manage his
own household, how will he take care of the church of
God?).
Which
is a tremendous test of
how a man will handle problems in the church.
That
may
come
as
a
surprise to some people. But
it
happens. Some times God’s
people
struggle as they seek to together follow God. If
this
man
is
an
overseer will he
run away from
problems and issues and people or will
he deal
with them
in love and grace -
applying God given wisdom? Verse
6: and not a
new convert, so that he will not become conceited and
fall into the
condemnation incurred by the devil. Which
means that - first - he
must have a personal
saving
relationship
with
Jesus
Christ. He
needs to have received God’s gift of salvation offered
through Jesus -
must have turned from his life apart from God - from
sin - and turned
to God - trusting Jesus as His Savior - giving his
life to God. Second
- he
needs to have a track record.
Evidence
of
an
ongoing
-
growing - deepening - having gone through the stuff of
life - relationship with God. A
new convert may mean well - wanting to
serve. But too
quickly
put
into
leadership
its too easy to
become impressed with our
position rather than to be impressed with God and His
graciousness
towards us. Its too
easy - given the pressures of the
position - as a target for Satan on the front lines of
the spiritual
battle - too easy to seek the approval of others
rather than God’s
approval. Too easy to go
along with the
opinions of our friends in the church rather than
following God - doing
what may be right even though its not popular. It’s dangerous to
move people too
quickly into leadership - dangerous for them -
dangerous for the church. Verse
7: And he must
have a good reputation with those outside the church,
so that he will
not fall into reproach and the snare of the devil. An
overseer isn’t a Sunday
Christian. Know what I
mean? Game face on for
Sunday - righteous clothes - righteous
vocabulary - Bible tucked under the arm - kids lined
up - faces
polished - the wife looks like Snow White. Great
image. Monday
he’s swearing up a storm
- ripping people off at work - flirting with the
ladies. Its pathetic how
many Christians there are that we’d never
know they’re Christians by their behavior at work or
school - outside
of the congregation. For
a Godly man -
what you see is…. what you get. A
Godly
man doesn’t have a hidden life that Satan can tap into
and use to
destroy the testimony of the Gospel. Those are the
qualifications for
overseers. Godly Men -
raised
up
by
God
-
obedient to God in how they live their lives - guiding
the
congregation by their teaching and own life example. Godly Men
of prayer who teach God’s Word and hold the
congregation accountable to
live in obedience to God. (Acts
20:18-35; Hebrews 13:7;
1 Peter 5:1-4)
In
verse 8, Paul turns to the
office of Deacon. Like
overseer - deacon is an office - a
position of ministry in the congregation.
In Acts 6 (Acts 6:1-7) we read that a
problem came up
in the Jerusalem church. The
church had
gone in size from being a handful of disciples to a
community numbering
in the thousands. The
Apostles tried. But, they
couldn’t keep up with the needs of
that many people. So a
problem came up. The
church had a food distribution ministry - a
way of caring for needy people. But,
certain
widows were not being adequately cared for. When
they brought this problem
to the Apostles -
who are in the role of overseer - the Apostles
told them to choose 7 men - and they gave
certain qualifications - how to choose these men - 7
men who were appointed to a position of
ministry that was to take
care
of
the
problem. Then
the Apostles - in the role of overseers -
the Apostles said, “It’s not
right for us to neglect the preaching of God’s word in
order to serve
tables.” (Acts 6:2) That
word “serve” is “diakonos” - which is where
we get our
English word? “deacon” from. This is the first time we
see the ministry of deacons in
the church.
Verse
8 to 13 focus on The Qualifications For Deacons.
Let’s
say
that
together, “The
qualifications for deacons.” How do we
recognize the men and
women whom God is raising up to serve as deacons? Verse
8: Deacons
likewise must be men of dignity - serious - not
double-tongued - talking out of both sides of
their mouths - not
to be given to pleasing people by saying one thing to
one person and
another thing to someone else. Deacons
speak
the truth. Deacons
are not addicted to
much wine - they’re
not alcoholics - or fond of
sordid gain - not
taking advantage of situations to gain money -
especially if their
going to be in situations where they’re going to be
discretely handling
the church’s money. Verse
9: but holding
to the mystery of the faith - a deacon must
have a testimony of a personal
relationship with Jesus Christ. He
or she
believes the Gospel - with a clear
conscience - a
deacon lives what they profess to believe. Verse
10: These men
must also first be tested; then let them serve as
deacons if they are
beyond reproach. A man shouldn’t
be shoved into a
position of responsibility without first being given
some initial
assignment and being watched to see how he does. Verse
11: Women must
likewise be dignified - same word as with the men - serious - not
malicious gossips -
malicious meaning that they use information to slander
others - not that anyone would ever do
that
- but
temperate, faithful in all things -
responsible - trustworthy - someone who you can
count on to follow through. Verse
12: Deacons must
be husbands of only one wife, and good managers of
their children and
their own households. We talked about
this with regard
to overseers. For those
who have served well as deacons obtain for themselves
a high standing
and great confidence in the faith that is in Christ
Jesus. In too many churches today, leaders
are selected based
on popularity - or because of their
financial status - or
their
education
-
or
because they’ve faithfully been doing some
ministry around the church for years.
Maybe
they’ve just been around longer than
anyone else. Or, maybe
they’re the only one who’s
volunteered. “We gotta
fill the slots cause the Bylaw say we need someone in
that position.” So we’ll take
anybody who’s naive enough to step forward. The
Head of the Church is Jesus. It’s
His Church. His
ministry
not
ours. When looking for
Godly
leaders - if we’re going to move forward as a church -
we need to
recognize those God is raising up to leadership -
those that God
qualifies. Leadership not
focused on
themselves - or maintaining the status quo - focused
on church
activities -
administrating the work of the church.
But
leadership
that
will
lead
us spiritually
-
that
will lead us forward with God because they
themselves are
being led forward by God. Taking this further - look back with me to verse 1. Paul writes, “If any man
aspires to the office of overseer, it is a fine work
he desires to do.” Then in verse 8,
“Deacons
likewise.” Meaning that
what Paul writes
about overseers in verse 1 is the same reality for
deacons. There
are two words here in
verse 1 that we need to understand. First is “aspire.”
Greek word “orego” Kind
of
like Oreo with a “G”. Which
means to
stretch. To stretch out
after something -
to lay ourselves out - total commitment - reaching
farther than we
thought possible - to stretch out with a great desire
to grab onto to
something. Second is “desire.”
In Greek its “epithumei.”
Which
is
two
Greek
words
stuck together to make one word.
“epi”
which
means
“over” or like above and beyond.
And
“thumos” which has the idea of hot
passionate desire or anger coming right out of our
hearts - the core of
who we are. Think
about Jesus in the
Temple - seeing how the money changers had turned
God’s house of prayer
into a bazaar - selling animals needed for sacrifices
and gouging
people on the exchange rate - ripping people off. Jesus
-
with
zeal
-
passion - anger - from deep within - taking a whip and
knocking over tables - pouring money all over the
place - driving the
money changers out of the temple.
(John
2:13-17) Our
Bylaws
-
under
qualifications for officers and Board members lists a
whole lot of Scripture. First
on that list
is 1 Timothy 3:1-13. Our
Bylaws sate that “The Pastor
must meet the scriptural qualifications outlined in 1
Timothy 3:1-7.” Which
isn’t
a
bad
thing. In fact it’s a
very
good thing. But
way too often we get caught
up in these lists of qualifications - stop there - and
think that if we
find someone who meets these qualifications we’ve
found someone who can
be put into leadership. And
that’s just
not true. Behind
the qualifications are
“aspire” and “desire” - the qualification. The
heart
of
a
Godly
man or women who is totally committed to their
relationship with God - stretching forward - reaching
for godliness -
poured out before God - passionate in desire coming
from the core of
who they are - passionate about moving forward in
their relationship
with God - in being surrendered to Him - trusting Him
fully with their
lives - allowing God to shape them and mold them and
use them -
according to His purposes - for His honor - for His
glory. Paul
says
- to
do the work of an overseer is
a good thing. Paul writes that
those who
have served well as deacons obtain for themselves a
high standing and
great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus. Serving
God transforms our lives. Gives
us the
confidence in our relationship with God that we need
to live life. Church
leadership is the most
exciting job on earth. “It’s not
just a job. It’s an
adventure.” To
be in the center of what God is doing on earth - as
His human channel
through which the mind and will of the living God is
active in the
lives of His people - what they can do and how they
can move forward
accomplishing His ministry - goes beyond the ability
to put into words. It’s
never dull. It
is
a
noble
-
honorable - purposeful task. We
miss all that when we look at
a list and not a life. Being
a
leader
in
God’s
congregation is a privilege to be sought after as an
extension of a life passionately desiring after God -
not a burden to
be avoided at all costs. Imagine
the next time the
nominating committee goes out looking for volunteers
and finds the
whole congregation full of people
passionately
desiring to serve. As
the Church - God calls us to
penetrate the world
- Merced - with
Gospel of Jesus Christ. To
do that it’s
essential that we have Godly leadership - Godly men and
women who are
aspiring and desiring. Two
questions: First: What
are
you
aspiring
to? Second: What
do you desire? _________________________ Unless otherwise
indicated,
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