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MEEKNESS IN REAL LIFE JAMES 3:13-18 Series: Real Faith in Real Life - Part Seven Pastor Stephen Muncherian June 30, 2013 |
Would you join me at James 3:13. We are going
on in our study of the letter of James - James
teaching on what real faith looks like in the real
time drama of our lives.
James - in chapter 1 - taught us that real
faith in the real time of our lives produces real
stability in our lives.
In chapter 2 James taught that real faith in
real time produces real love. This morning we are coming to a new
section of James’ letter and this theme: Real faith
in real time produces real humility. Please read with me verse 13: Who is wise and understanding
among you? By
his good conduct let him show his works in the
meekness of wisdom. James begins with ONE QUESTION: Who
is wise and understanding among you? Let’s be honest. Its just us
here. Most
of us - unless we’ve got some deeper issues to deal
with - most of us would probably answer that question
by saying, “I am.”
We may qualify our answer depending on who we
think might be listening. Or, because
we don’t want to sound too arrogant - even to
ourselves. We
might say something like, “Well, I’m not the wisest person in the
world or the most understanding. But, I’m not
a dweeb either. I
do have some smarts.”
Similar question. Remember the
game show? Who
wants to be a millionaire? Show of
hands? Pretty
much everyone. Hard part - of course is... is answering
the questions. Very
few contestants actually win. Which is the second part of verse 13: Who is wise and understanding
among you? By
his good conduct let him show his works in the
meekness of wisdom. That’s
the “Ya but prove it” part. Point being: Beyond what
we may think of ourselves - or what we might want
others to think about us - how do you know you really
are wise and understanding? James writes that good conduct is a huge
qualifier. Which
is one of James’ underlying themes in this letter. Right? Actions
speak louder than… words. Good Conduct is huge. Works -
actions - lifestyle - how we live out what we say we
believe - living wise and understanding - is way more
significant that saying we are wise and understanding. What is good conduct? James tells
us that good conduct is having works in the meekness
of wisdom. What does James means by the meekness of
wisdom? Jesus - in His Sermon on the Mount said
what? “Blessed are the meek for they
shall inherit the earth.” (Matthew
5:5) The old joke is that the meek will
inherit the earth if that’s okay with everyone. The meek are
doormats. They
just sort of lay there and let the world wipe their
feet all over them as the world marches on to bigger
and better things.
Our society is not too high on meekness. Have you
ever been driving and had to wait while someone just
meanders along crossing the street looking at you like
you’re a jerk for just encroaching upon their sacred
lives? People
don’t seem to care unless something affects their
little world. We
live in a world filled
with people demanding respect.
Pro athletes who yearly get paid more than
billions of people will earn in a lifetime - demanding
the right to have more.
A misspoken comment leads to a lawsuit. An argument
between kids leads to gunshots after school. Husbands and
wives and kids who have marked off their territory at
home. Everywhere
we go people are on edge - responding with
unrestrained defensiveness that no one can ever, to
any degree step into their space without paying a
price for it. Our
society tells us to demand our rights. The meek get
run over. We rebel
against meekness.
We think of ourselves as courageous and strong
- self-sufficient. Meekness
sounds too much like surrender - capitulation. Warren Wiersbe nailed it when he said, “Meekness is not weakness. It is power
under control.” (1) The greatest example of meekness is what? Jesus on the
cross. Right? We sing the Graham Kendrick song
“Meekness and Majesty” Meekness and majesty, manhood and
deity, in perfect harmony, the man who is God. Lord of
eternity dwells in humanity… To death on
a cross suffering to give us life… and as they
crucify prays, “Father forgive.” (2) Jesus said, “No one can take my life from me. I sacrifice
it voluntarily. For
I have the authority to lay it down when I want to and
also to take it up again. For this is
what my Father has commanded.” (John 10:18 TNLT) Imagine Jesus at the crucifixion, “This is so not worth it. I am way out
of here.” One thought and poof. No more
soldiers. No
more cross. No
more nothing. Including
us. That’s
power. The
prerogative of the sovereignty of God. In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus is saying that those
who’ve figured out life are those who understand who God is and who they are before God. The meek
recognize their desperation for God’s grace and mercy and forgiveness and provision for their lives. Admitting
our weakness and need - our desperation for God takes
real strength. Beyond recognition and admission - meekness before God means giving up ourselves to God -
obedience - whatever He may demand of us - even
physical death - horribly. James says that wise and understanding
good conduct shows up in the meekness of wisdom. Back in James chapter 1 - at verse 5 -
James instructed us to go to God for wisdom. Remember
this? In
the real time drama of our lives we need to go to God
for the wisdom we need to move through all that. Proverbs 9:10 says, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of
- what?
wisdom.” Fear is understanding that God is greater
- Almighty - sovereign - worthy our respect - our
honor - the surrender of our will - the giving up of
our lives to. He
is the source of wisdom and I am not.
We’ve got tons of knowledge today. The
guesstimate is that by 2020 human knowledge will be
doubling every 72 hours - exponential growth in
knowledge. We
have immense knowledge today that we didn’t have just
a few years back.
What we lack is wisdom to apply knowledge to
our lives. Real wisdom is seeing life from God’s
perspective. The
knowledge of God - meaning what God knows - wisdom is
the application of God’s knowledge to the
circumstances of our lives. Which is why James writes, “If you lack wisdom, ask God.” God is the go to God of wisdom. If you lack
wisdom. And
we do. Ask
God. He’s
the source. True
wisdom only comes from God. Let’s be careful. In the real
time drama of our lives wisdom is not God telling us
why we’re going through the drama. Like somehow
we’d understand all that anyway. Or our
telling God what He should do about our drama and then
getting upset because He hasn’t. Wisdom is the application of God’s
knowledge to the circumstances of our lives - the
learned skill of living life God’s way - living life
according to God’s perspective of life - learning to
wait for His timing and His working and then following
Him through all that.
That’s meekness guided by Godly wisdom. The Greek word for meekness was used to
describe a horse that had been broken and trained to
submit to a bridle.
That ought to take us down a notch. But thinking
about that it kinda makes sense. Here’s a
horse - powerful not weak - hooked up to a bridle -
strength submitted to appropriate authority. Which is a picture of how our lives need
to be - not out of resignation - just kind of giving
up - but by deliberate choice - placing our lives
under the authority of God. That’s the
kind of real faith in real time that James is writing
about. Charles Kingsley - an Anglican pastor
back in the 1800’s - Kingsley put it this way: “I do not want merely to possess
faith; I want a faith that possess me.” (3) Psalm 37 - which is the Psalm that Jesus
is probably quoting in the Sermon on the Mount - Psalm
37 is all about strength and meekness. It deals
with trusting God to be God and not trying to do His
job. The
meek - for example - the meek are not to repay evil
for evil but to rely on God for justice. The meek are
not to fret but to let God provide for their heart’s
desires rather than using our own whit, wisdom, and
working to manipulate people and circumstances. Do you hear faith in that? Trusting God
even if we think we’ve got it covered? Realizing
that we don’t. Trusting
God when we have no clue what comes next. Trusting Him
because He is loving and gracious and merciful and
forgiving and just and almighty and sovereign - and He
in His timing and perfect way has already worked all
this out. John Own - a church leader - theologian -
in the 1600’s - John Owen said this: “We have no power from God unless
we live in the persuasion that we have none of our
own.” (4) D.L. Moody’s famous statement: “Moses spent forty years thinking
he was somebody; then he spent forty years on the
backside of the desert realizing he was nobody;
finally, he spent the last forty years of his life
learning what God can do with a nobody!” (5) Meekness is our personal surrender -
humility - willing choice to live according to God’s
wisdom not ours.
To set aside our prerogatives - our will - our
pride - our self - to live following God through life. That choice
will be evidenced - God working in us and through us -
in how we conduct ourselves in life. Who is wise and understanding
among you? By
his good conduct let him show his works in the
meekness of wisdom. In the real time drama of life there are
two possible answers to James’ question. Coming to
verses 14 to 18 - James is going to give us a
description of each of those two possible answers. The point being that these two answers
are definitive. Meaning
regardless of how we say we’ve answered the question -
or how we’d like to think we’ve answered the question
- these answers are unbiased - clear - and honesty
about where the real source of wisdom is in our lives. Whether or
not we’re really living with a heart level attitude of
true meekness before God and others. TWO
ANSWERS which
demonstrate how we’ve answered the question. Answer
number one is with Wisdom From Below. Let’s read what James writes in verses 14
to 16: But if you have bitter jealousy
and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast and
be false to the truth.
This is not the wisdom that comes down from
above, but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. For where
jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be
disorder and every vile practice. There are three parts to this answer that
we need to unpack. First - starting in verse 14 - James
gives us two DESCRIPTIONS of wisdom from below. Both are
focused - on the heart level - both are focused on
self - me, myself, and I. Jealousy in Greek is the word for zealous
- “zealousy” - a fanatical zeal for what promotes me. Bitter
meaning this isn’t good. Selfish ambition is a self seeking
attitude. What
they have I want.
I deserve.
I’m entitled to.
And I really don’t give a rip about who I have
to climb over to get it. Which is all around us in the world. Sadly - we
sometimes even see in the church. On the radio
- at concerts - conferences - the world of academia -
people pushing themselves. Jealous of
what others have.
Wanting recognition for themselves. Even us - sometimes we can look at what
others have - their stuff or position or employment or
family life or standing in the church or community and
we can feel an attitude inside us that’s jealous -
resentful - self-focused. Why do they
have what I want?
What I should rightfully have? Life being about us is a denial of God’s
sovereignty and grace.
Sovereignty in that what God chooses to give
others is good. Whatever
we have or don’t have is about God - not us. Resources -
ability - whatever - life is about God. And grace
meaning that our very relationship with God is about
God. Salvation
is about God. All
glory goes to God.
Who are we? As soon as what we have and who we are is
about us - glorifying ourselves - we are in serious
serious trouble. James warns us - if that’s what’s going
on your heart - don’t boast about it. Don’t be
arrogant about it.
In reality you’re being false to the truth. We’re lying
about what’s really true. God’s absolute standard of truth in the
Bible doesn’t change because we choose to interpret it
based on what we’d like it to say. Truth is
truth - despite what’s being said today outside and
inside the church.
Relative truth isn’t absolute truth. What God
says is true will always be true. Lying about the truth means we set
ourselves up as the declarers of truth - not God. That’s heart
level arrogance - boasting. Those who’s wisdom comes from below will
try to change truth - to declare as true what they say
is normal and right - to try and tilt truth in favor
of their beliefs or lifestyles. To justify
how we choose to live based on our own bitter
jealousies and selfish ambitions. In verse 15 James comes to the SOURCE of wisdom from below. First, its earthy - meaning of the earth. The Greek word is “epigeios” - meaning of
the earth. The
word for earth in all that is “geias” or gaias. In Greek
mythology “Gaia” was who? The Mother
Goddess - the birth mother of earth and the universe
and the heavenly gods.
The Roman equivalent is Terra - good old Terra
Mater. Think
“worshiping the mother goddess” and “wicca” -
witchcraft - and being one with nature. Good old
“mother earth.”
The Gaia hypothesis - which became
popular several years back - is about the earth being
a biosphere - the inter-relationship of living things
- our maintaining the earth as a fit place for life. Does that
sound familiar? Let’s be careful. If we
believe that the Genesis account of creation is an
historical fact - and we do. If we
believe Genesis is historical - meaning as it relates
here - that God created Adam and Eve and gave them as
one of their purposes to rule over and care for God’s
creation - then we as Christians ought to be huge on
taking care of the environment. But - let’s be careful - worshiping the
earth - or seeing it without seeing behind it our
creator - is something hugely different. What James is getting at is a world
system that is the source of its own worship. Think
horizontal. How
the world measures success and achievement and truth
and what motivates us.
All of that being devoid of God. Second, its unspiritual. The
Greek word is related to our word psyche - meaning
this has a whole to do with what goes on in our own
mind not our soul.
The source of this wisdom is our own thoughts
and attitudes and interests and pursuits. There’s
nothing here related to the work of God within us. Third source - its demonic - meaning its influenced by what’s
coming out of Hell.
This all gets Satan’s stamp of approval. Are we together? From below
meaning by character and source this has nothing to do
with God. Then James gives us the RESULTS of wisdom from below. Verse 16:
For where jealousy and selfish ambition
exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice. “Disorder” means... disorder. Confusion -
chaos - disharmony - antagonism. What
is the total opposite of what God desires for us. We don’t
have to look very far to see what James is writing
about. “Every vile practice” means empty - worthless - life without
meaning and purpose.
Pointless.
Which is what life is when we set ourselves up
in the place of God.
Whatever we may achieve in life really is kinda
pointless. Faced with our own mortality - if we take
God out of the picture - if the end of life is death
then life really is pretty pointless. Either were
going to give up and kill ourselves. We’re all
going to die anyway so why prolong the agony. Or, we can
try to ignore reality and just sort of make the best
of things. Don’t
bother me with the details. Or, we can
try to grab all the gusto we can. Which is what James is getting at here. Grab it
while you can cause it ain’t gonna last forever. Climb over
whoever you want.
Get yours.
Which is a wisdom that comes out of the
pit of hell and is very comfortable with the world’s
view of life. The results of living that way are seen
around us. Take
a look around - at our society - at how people are
dealing with life - and ask the question: “So, how’s that going for you?” Answer:
“Not well.” James asks:
“Who is wise and understanding?” To
the degree that our answer is coming from someplace
down here - influenced by down here or below - we’re
going to see that wisdom reflected in our conduct -
how we’re living life and the results. James’
answer number two - whether or not we’re really living
with a heart level attitude of true meekness before
God and others - James’ second answer comes is verses
17 and 18: Answer number two is Wisdom From Above. Let’s read these two verses together: But the wisdom from above is first
pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of
mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere. And a
harvest of righteousness is sown in peace by those who
make peace. Notice the DESCRIPTION of wisdom from
above. Wisdom from above is “first pure” - “first” meaning more that just this
is the first item on the list. First means
purity is first in order of importance. Ultimately
all of James’ description deals with the heart. But first,
“pure” is the heart level starting point. Jesus - in the Sermon on the Mount
- Jesus taught:
Blessed are the pure in heart, for they
shall see God.” (Matthew 5:8)
A boy and a girl look at each
other and love passes between them. They see
each other - not only with their eyes - but with their
hearts. Even when Jesus was dealing with
the outer issues of people’s lives - healing them -
feeding them - when Jesus looked at people he saw
their hearts. Not
the outside stuff that we tend to focus on. But the core
of who they were.
Their feelings and desires and thoughts and
passions. Their
will. Even
where they were spiritually in their relationship with
God. A pure heart is a heart that’s
100% sold out to God.
Not 50% - not 70% - not 90% - but 100%. God wants to work in our hearts -
to deal with us at the core of who we are. To purify us
- cleanse us. The
pure in heart are those who are willing to allow God
to examine their hearts - to remove anything there
that’s not of Him.
So that nothing clouds our vision of God. Nothing
hinders our relationship with Him. As we surrender to God - God is going to
produce that kind of purity in our hearts - in our
response to God and life. A purity at
the heart level that’s essential for us to help us see
God at work in every area of our lives - what leads to
the rest of James’ description. Then “peaceable” - meaning in contrast to climbing over
people regardless of the destruction we leave behind -
God given wisdom produces peaceful relationships. Instead of
arguing and defending ourselves - anger. As we
surrender to God - God is going to use us to bring His
peace into the circumstances of our lives. Then “gentle.” Gentle
means… gentle. Considerate. Fair. Jesus again. Jesus said a
lot of good stuff.
Didn’t He?
Jesus said this:
“But I say to you, do not resist the one
who is evil. If
anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the
other also, and if anyone would sue you and take your
tunic, let him have your cloak as well. And if
anyone forces you to go one mile, go with him two
miles. Give
to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse the
one who would borrow from you.” (Matthew 5:39-42) Do you remember the Klingon proverb “Revenge is a dish that is best
served - what? cold”? Revenge -
vengeance - with all the bitterness and anger and
malice possible.
Given the opportunity to retaliate most people
will over-retaliate - overdo the response. “Your ox gored my goat. I will kill
your whole family.” The point Jesus is making - with these
four examples - cheeks and tunics and miles and
begging - Jesus’ point has to do with yielding our
rights. Our
normal tendency when wronged is to demand justice -
and maybe a little more.
Well, maybe a lot more. Payback. Welcome to
our lawsuit happy society. Jesus’ yielding is the kind of gentleness
in conduct that James is writing about. When we
surrender ourselves to God’s wisdom - God’s approach
to our drama - we’re going to respond to what’s done
to us way different than the wisdom coming out of the
world. Next is “open to reason” - which has the idea of teachable. The opposite
of “My way or the highway.” Somebody who’s flexible - open to change. When God
really does get control of our hearts He changes us -
softens us. When
we surrender to God to do life God’s way we don’t need
to cling on to our way - our understanding of things. God may
actually hear God speaking to us through someone else. Then “full of mercy and good fruits.” Mercy
means not getting what we deserve. Right? Holding back
on decking someone even though they really really
deserve it. Good
fruits has to do with what that mercy produces. Meaning
blessing - healing - restoration - coming along side
someone to encourage them towards God - rather than
decking them. Next:
“impartial” - which in Greek has the idea of
“unwavering.” Being
a person of fixed morals and principles - never
compromising on the truth of God’s word. Which is not legalism. Legalism is
demanding that others live by our standards and
understanding of God’s word. “Impartial” means that the authority we
live our lives under is the authority of God’s word -
the Bible - not the shifting standards and religions
and philosophies of the world. Which is related to James’ final
description: “sincere” - meaning without hypocrisy. Meaning what
you see is… what you get. No masks -
no double talk - no posing. Point being: If we’re
living our lives under the authority of God’s
unchanging word - His word is going to breed
consistency of behavior in our lives and confidence in
who we are in Christ so that we don’t need to hide. We don’t
need to try and adapt who we are to our current peer
group or the current thinking of the day. Someone who is impartial and sincere is
always seeking to bring God’s truth into the
circumstances of life regardless of what others may
think of us. Pulling all that together - James’
description - what wisdom from above looks like coming
from the heart. Purity at the heart level comes - as we
acknowledge and act on our desperation for God. As we live
with real faith in real time - trusting Him -
surrendering ourselves to Him - God transforms us from
the heart out. God
shows us where we’re hanging on to ourselves and where
we need to trust Him and that He is trustable. We learn
what it means to live obedient to the authority of
God’s word.
Living with that meekness of wisdom -
following God through life - God will lead us to let
go of our self focused behavior and to become
instruments of all of what James describes here and
more. We
become God’s instruments of peace and gentleness and
mercy and truth in the real time drama of where we
live our lives. James tells us the SOURCE of this wisdom is from above -
meaning... God. The RESULTS come in verse 18: a harvest of righteousness is sown
in peace by those who make peace. The kind of peace James is writing about
here is in contrast to the chaos and destruction and
purposeless disorder than comes when we’re left to our
own wisdom. This
peace is relational.
Peace with one another. In our
community. In
the church. In
our homes. Way
better than ongoing drama. Yes? The kind of peace James is writing about
takes time. Between
sowing and harvesting there’s a lot of growing and
tending and watering and weeding that takes place. We sow in
hope of the harvest.
But the issues of life and heart take time. Good
outcomes take time. Which develops humility within us as we
learn to trust God.
The results James writes about mean waiting on
God’s timing and God’s working - following His wisdom
for how we do life - not ours. God will
bring a righteous harvest at the time of His choosing. Which is the bottom line here - peace is
dependent on God.
Peacemakers sowing peace produce a harvest of
righteousness. Righteousness
- living rightly with God - is a God thing. Not a you or
me thing. Real faith in real time produces real
humility. What
God does as we surrender to the work of the Holy
Spirit within us.
Learning to live trusting the God who is trust
worthy and Who produces results that are infinitely
better than what we would produce left to our own
wisdom and understanding. Processing what James writes and thinking
through where we go from here when we go out there -
let me briefly share a question that Chuck Swindoll
asks as he writes about these verses. Imagine yourself sitting in the
center of a small art gallery. The brightly
lit room appears empty except for two contrasting
portraits on opposite walls. On the one
side hangs the portrait of an arrogant, worldly,
devilish fellow, featured on a dark backdrop that
stirs emotions of anger and envy. A scraggly
beard and mustache veil his features, and a large hat
casts a shadow over his shifty eyes. He leaves
chaos and destruction in his wake as he advances,
unflinching, toward the pursuit of his goals, driven
by jealousy and ambition. The caption
beneath the portrait reads: “The
Unwise,” painted by “Self.” The portrait on the facing wall
couldn’t be more different. That man
sports a gentle demeanor, his posture relaxed and his
expression serene.
His eyes feel inviting and his hands appear
ready for service.
Behind him people follow, eager to hear his
words and mimic his actions. Children
celebrate his arrival, delighted to see what gifts he
might bring. Clearly
respected, he shows no signs of pride, and in his path
are joy, peace, and prosperity. Below this
portrait the caption says: “The Wise,”
painted by “The Spirit of God.” Hear the question: In light of the contrasting
pictures of the wise and the unwise in James 3:13-18,
with which portrait do you align? (6)
Take a moment and honestly answer that
question. Got
an answer?
Last question: Would those
who know you best answer for you the same way? Want some good news?
We are not wise by our own making but by
the work of God within us. Which means - whatever the portrait - or
shades of one or the other - it is never too late to
be meek and humble ourselves before God. Because if
we will - He will - by His Spirit do His work in us
and through us.
_________________________ 1. Sited in 1001 Unforgettable Quotes
about God, Faith, & The Bible - #615, Ron Rhodes, Harvest
House Publishers, 2011 2. Graham Kendrick, © 1986, Thankyou
Music 3. Sited in 1001 Unforgettable Quotes
about God, Faith, & The Bible - #344, Ron Rhodes, Harvest
House Publishers, 2011 4. Ibid #977 5. Ibid #537 6. Charles R. Swindoll, Insights on James, 1 and 2 Peter - Zondervan, 2010, page 84 Additional series reference: Charles R.
Swindoll, Insights on James, 1 and 2 Peter - Zondervan, 2010 Unless otherwise indicated, Scripture
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