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SPEECH IN REAL LIFE JAMES 3:1-12 Series: Real Faith in Real Life - Part Six Pastor Stephen Muncherian June 23, 2013 |
Please join me at James 3 - starting at
verse 1. We
are in a section of James’ letter - that we began back
at chapter 2 verse 1 - James is focusing us on this
truth: Real
faith in real time produces real love. What real
faith looks like in our relationships with others. James has been giving us a series of
teachings - with examples - for us to compare our
lives to. What
do our actions towards others tell us about our faith? Is our faith
kind of a shallow faith of convenience and culture? Or, is our
faith a deep faith - coming from the core of who we
are? What
do our actions towards others tell us about our faith? Here in chapter 3 James is going to focus
on what comes out of our mouths - our words - our
speech in the real time of real life. A little boy was selling a lawnmower. A Baptist
pastor came along and wanted to buy it. He asked if
it ran. “Yes sir,” said the
boy. The
pastor pulled and pulled the starter rope. After a bit
he said, “Son, this thing won’t start.” The
boy said, “That’s ‘cause you ‘gotta cuss at it.” The pastor said, “Son, I’m a Baptist pastor and I haven’t
cussed in 18 years.”
The boy said, “Keep pulling. It’ll come
back to you.” What can our words tell us about what’s
in our heart?
Let’s read verses 1 and 2 together: Not many of you should become
teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach
will be judged with greater strictness. For we all
stumble in many ways.
And if anyone does not stumble in what he says,
he is a perfect man, able also to bridle his whole
body. Verses 1 and 2 focus on The Problem of Our Tongue. James begins with teachers. With a
warning. Not
a condemnation. Let’s
agree that being a teacher is a good thing. But let’s be
clear on James’ warning.
In James’ day there were Jews who were
pursuing being rabbis - teachers - because of the
position - the clout - the recognition. It made them
look good. Gave
them a standing in the community. Christians
wanted to be leaders in the church because it came
with a degree of recognition. Point being
that they were more concerned with the position than
what affect they were having on other people. Not much
changes does it? Doesn’t seem like the teachers we learn
the most from are the teachers who actually love to
teach - who genuinely care about their students and
what it is that they’re teaching? What makes a
good teacher a good teacher isn’t the degrees they
have or the years of experience - it’s the heart of
the teacher. What’s
in the heart comes out in their words and their
actions - good or bad - and has an affect on us. People joke that pastor’s only work 1
hour a week. The
reality is that getting up here to share on Sunday
morning is a product of a minimum of 20 hours of
preparation - meaning prayerful study - coming to an
intellectual understanding of the text and a process
of thinking through how to present what’s being taught
by God’s word so that it makes practical - applicable
real life - sense. And more so - days - if not weeks - if
not a lifetime of God systematically - lovingly -
working to transform my suborn will into something
that resembles what it is that’s being shared here. James is warning us that those who teach
are judged with a greater strictness - and they should
be. What
they’re teaching affects lives. A teacher is responsible to speak the
truth - to teach what God’s word says even if it goes
against our personal opinion - even if exposes areas
in our own lives where we struggle. Teachers are
expected to speak the truth - to live the truth - at
the heart level. Then - looking at verse 1 - did you
notice who James is warning? “My brothers.” James goes on “we who teach” -
verse 2 - “we all stumble.” Let’s not miss this. What James
is writing here applies to all of us - not just those
who are in a formal “upfront” role of teacher. Parents
teach children. Siblings
teach siblings. Christians
teach non-Christians what it means to be a Christian. We all have
roles - at home - at work - at school - where we have
influence - good or bad - we all have some influence
on others - good or bad. James writes: For we all stumble in many ways. And if
anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is a
perfect man, able also to bridle his whole body. We all stumble means that we all...
stumble. In
what we say - in our speech - in what’s coming out of
our mouths - we all get tripped up. Which means not one of us is perfect. Not one of
us is able to bridle - reign in - control - his whole
body - how we’re living.
We all have a problem here. Which means that for all of us who teach
- formal or otherwise - this is really really serious. Lives are at
stake. Our
nation. Our
community. The
church. Our
homes - families - generations. All are
stake here. Have you ever wished you could take back
your words? Anything
ever slip out that shouldn’t have? We all
stumble. The
tongue catches everyone - regardless of position or
desire or maturity. James is warning wannabe teachers who may
be pretending they’ve got it all together - image and
position being important to them. He’s calling
on the rest of us to think seriously - honestly -
about our lives.
We’re not perfect. We need to
pay attention to what James in writing. Verses 3 to 5 focus on The Influence of Our Tongue. Let’s read these verses together and then
come back and unpack what James is teaching. Verse 3: If we put bits into the mouths of
horses so that they obey us, we guide their whole
bodies as well. Look
at the ships also:
though they are so large and are driven by
strong winds, they are guided by a very small rudder
wherever the will of the pilot directs. So also the
tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great
things. Example of influence number one: A bit in the
mouth of a horse - of course. A harness goes over a horses’ head. A harness
that has a noseband - a browband - attaches to the
reigns - and a bit - a few straps of leather - a
uniquely shaped piece of metal - a bit goes in the
horses’ mouth. The
purpose of which is to restrain or guide the horse. Some of you have horses. Large
animal. Small
bit. Pull
the reigns and the horse turns. The horse
may not always want to go that way. But
ultimately, where the head goes the body must follow. In a similar way the tongue can guide the
direction of a person’s life. Example of influence number two: The rudder
of a ship. (picture) Anyone know what ship this is? KMS
Bismarck. Commissioned by the Nazis on August 24,
1940. She
had displacement of almost 51,000 tons - which means
she was big. She
could reach speeds of 30 knots - which meant she was
fast. She
had 8 - 15” guns - which meant she was powerful. On May 18, 1941 - the Bismarck and the
heavy cruiser Prinz Eugen made a break for the North
Atlantic. Their
goal was to wreak havoc on conveys carrying supplies
to England and to draw as many British ships as they
could away from other patrols. If these two
ships got into the North Atlantic it would have
decimated the British war effort. The British sent every ship and aircraft
they could to hunt down the Bismarck and sink her. On May 24th
- HMS Hood took on the Bismarck. The battle cruiser Hood was the symbol of
British naval power.
She was the flagship of the British Atlantic
Fleet’s Battle Cruiser Squadron. Known as The
Mighty Hood - she was the longest, heaviest, fastest
armored warship in the British Fleet. If any ship
could sink Bismarck - Hood could. The battle lasted only 20 minutes. During the
battle, one 15” shell from the Bismarck struck the
Hood. She
exploded - sinking in 3 minutes. Only 3 of
over 1,400 crewmen survived. The effect on the British was
devastating. Bismarck
seemed invincible. After days of pursuit and skirmishes -
what finally did the Bismarck in was a last minute -
almost in darkness - miracle hit by a single torpedo -
that jammed mighty Bismarck’s rudder and steering
gear. So
that - after that hit she was only able to steer in a
large circle in the general direction of the British
fleet. She
became a sitting duck.
The British fired almost 2,900 shells at
Bismarck - finally finishing her off with torpedoes. James is talking about the merchant ships
of his day. Driven
by the power of the wind - manned - complex -
impressive. The
Bismarck's of the day.
All that turned by a small teeny tiny rudder. In
a similar way the course of a person’s life can be
influenced by the tongue. James - verse 5: So also the tongue is a small
member, yet it boasts of great things. Point being: The tongue
is small but it has great influence. Going on in verse 5 - James’ next set of
examples focus on The Destructiveness of Our Tongue. Let’s read these verses together: How great a forest is set ablaze
by such a small fire!
And the tongue is a fire, a world of
unrighteousness.
The tongue is set among our members, staining
the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of
life, and set on fire by hell. For every
beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be
tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human
being can tame the tongue. It is a
restless evil, full of deadly poison. Luciano Mares of Fort Sumner, New Mexico
had a small mouse problem. Pun
intended. It
seems that he caught a mouse inside his house and
wanted to get rid of it.
Mares, who was interviewed at his motel room,
Mares said, “I had some leaves burning
outside, so I threw the mouse on the fire.” Then, Mares watched in horror as the -
now on fire mouse - ran back to the house - to just
underneath a window from where the flames spread
throughout the house - destroying the house and
everything in it. Much more serious is what’s being going
on up in Mariposa this last week - the smoke of which
we could see from Merced. Last Sunday
afternoon a small unattended campfire turned into a
blaze that threatened 800 homes - forced 1,000
evacuations - burned about 1,700 acres - brought 2,000
plus firefighters from around the state - and has cost
around $5.5 million to fight. Have you ever driven through an area
destroyed by fire?
Acres and acres of charred grass or trees -
black - all because of single spark. Congregations - families - places we’ve
worked - can be like that. When gossip
gets out of control - backbiting - nasty things get
said - people get shredded up front or usually behind
the back. Loose
lips and unrestrained tongues. Have you
been there? James says the tongue - burning its path
of destruction - is a world of unrighteousness -
ungodliness. Its
like all the evil in the world is wrapped up in that
little thing in our mouths. Anger, lust,
bitterness, resentment, hatred, greed, malice,
jealousy. Its
hard to think of a sin that the doesn’t somehow
involve the tongue. Notice three things about the tongue’s
world of unrighteousness. First: It defiles
the entire body. The
Greek word for body is “soma.” It has the
idea of everything that we are: Mind, Body,
Soul. All
of who we are is connected to what comes out of our
mouths.
Second:
It defiles the course of our lives. A woman was vacationing with some friends
and just happened to wander into a jewelry store in
Beverly Hills where she found this exquisite diamond
necklace costing $10,000. Not wanting
to buy it without checking with her husband - she
texted him about purchasing the necklace and the
price. His
response came back, “No, price to high.” Unfortunately, he left out the coma. “No price to high.” “Sticks and stones may break my
bones, but words will never - what?
hurt me.”
James is saying that’s a lie. If we’re told, “You’re a failure.” Or,
“You’re stupid.” Or, “You’ll never amount to much.” “You don’t
have what it takes.”
“When you were born you were so ugly the doctor
slapped your mother.”
If we’re told that at the right time or
often enough we begin to believe it. Words effect
how we look at ourselves. They effect
our actions. Words can be devastating - can radically
change the course of our lives. Third:
That defilement is ignited by the fires of hell. The Greek word used here for “hell” is
“gehenna” - not the Hebrew “Sheol” or the Greek
“Hades” - which are other words meaning Hell or the
place of the dead - think location. “Ghenna” was
the Jerusalem City Dump - located in the Valley of
Hinnom. That
sounds kind of the same, doesn’t it. Gehenna -
Hinnom?
All of the putrefying refuse - the filth
- whatever defiled the holy city - was thrown there. All of that
was burned. Dead
bodies - ceremonially unclean - the dead were thrown
there. The
god Molech was worshipped there - pagan rites of
children being burned alive. Gehenna was
a continual stinking fire that never went out. Gehenna is visual. The people
of Jerusalem used the term “Gehenna” as an expression
for hell. Because
they could see it and smell it and it just looked like
hell on earth. A
place one would never want to exist for one day let
alone eternity. James’ first point about the
destructiveness of our tongues is that the tongue can
be set in motion by the worst evil crud of this world. That ongoing
evil - unleashed by the tongue - is hugely destructive
to our whole lives and the lives of others around us. Second James point about our tongues
destructiveness is how difficult it is to control our
tongue. We
can tame beasts and birds and reptiles and fish and on
and on. The
tongue is worse than all those feral cats running
around Merced. They
can be caught. Maybe
even tamed. But, James writes, no human being can
tame the tongue.
We - left to our own power and will and efforts
- whit - wisdom - and working - we’ll never be able to
tame the tongue.
We cannot adequately or completely control it. David writes in Psalm 39 that he tried to
keep his mouth shut.
But, the more he tried the more stressed out he
became - the more he was burning inside - till finally
what was inside came out - words that should not have
been spoken. Ever have that experience? “I’m not going to say nothing.” And then “BOOM” out it comes. James writes, our tongues are restless -
literally unstable - like a drunk weaving and
wandering - staggering - out of control. And, full of
poison. The
purpose of poison is destruction - incapacitation -
death. Bottom line: The tongue
is out of control - unrestrained deadly
destructiveness. Then James focuses on The Inconsistency of Our Tongue. Read verses 9 to 12 with me: With it we bless our Lord and
Father, and with it we curse people who are made in
the likeness of God.
From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers,
these things ought not to be so. Does a
spring pour forth from the same opening both fresh and
salt water? Can
a fig tree, my brothers, bear olives, or a grapevine
produce figs? Neither
can a salt pond yield fresh water. This is way too close to home isn’t it? I’m driving and listening to a CD or
something. Music
that’s taking me to just this side of heaven. Presence of
God stuff. The
volume is up to where I’m threatening the guy with the
woofers in the car next to me. We’re
together? Just
me and God. Praising
God and the top of my lungs. Pure
worship. And some jerk who gotten his license off
the internet - who’s texting the whole dictionary -
cuts me off - switches lanes right in front of me -
without signaling - without even looking. From the
same mouth comes blessing and cursing. How many of you have been there? Happens. We all
stumble. Sometimes
that stumbling comes with our Sunday afternoon
critique of what went on a Church - or after a Bible
study or time of prayer. Chuck Swindoll shares this illustration:
After a long Sunday morning service, a
family sat down to eat lunch. The father
bowed his head and led the children in the blessing. He thanked
the Lord for the food, for the day, and for their
home. Shortly
after saying, “Amen,” he proceeded to
fuss about the preacher, the church, his job. Nothing but
complaints poured from his lips. Following
all that, his little daughter tapped him on the
shoulder and said, “Daddy, did God hear you when you said
the blessing?” Switching to theological authority, Dad
answered, “Yes, darling, He did.” “Well,” asked his
daughter, “did God hear you when you fussed right
after you prayed?” “Well… uh, yes, honey, I suppose
He did.” “Then, Daddy,” she
said, “which one did God believe?” (1)
We all stumble. I am just as
much in process with this as everyone else in the
room. Just
ask my kids. We
all stumble. One minute we can be speaking so lovingly
to our wives - or husbands - God’s creation and gift
to us - and the next minute we’re speaking words of
anger. We
speak kindly to our children - God’s creation and
blessing to us - and then the next minute so harshly. We clean up
our speech for our siblings at church but when we get
to work we can swear with the best of them - gossip -
tear others down. The tongue is amazingly unique. It has the
ability to both praise God or to curse God. It can
seemingly flip from one to the other with great ease.
James asks.
How can this be?
One minute we’re praising God. Then next
minute we’re shredding His creation. Slicing and
dicing people that God created in His image. Which is
akin to shredding God - His creation - His people -
His image. There’s a disconnect here. James gives four examples from nature -
starting in verse 11.
Does a spring pour forth from the same
opening both fresh and salt water? Answer - “No.” Can a fig tree, my brothers, bear
olives Answer - “No.” or a grapevine produce figs? Answer - “No” Neither can a salt pond yield
fresh water. “No, of course not.” Do you see what James is getting at here? The source
determines the flow.
The nature of the tree determines the type of
fruit. Someone
flip-flopping - talking out of both sides of their
mouth - is only demonstrating what’s going on in their
heart. Inconsistency
in reality demonstrates consistency. This is a very serious question. The tongue
is influential. Its
destructive. Its
untamable. Its
even able to curse God.
What are we producing with our tongues? If there’s
an inconstancy it means there’s a consistent
disconnect between what we say we believe and what’s
really going on at our heart level - at the core of
who we are. Some Pharisees and Scribes had come up
from Jerusalem and were going on and on about Jesus’
disciples and how Jesus’ disciples were breaking with
their religious traditions. These are
religious teachers of God’s people that for the most
part - theologically and doctrinally - were right on. They were
meticulous in their doing of what they did to keep
right with God who were adamant in their teaching of
what others needed to be doing to keep themselves
right with God. So here they are - up from Jerusalem -
questioning Jesus on what His disciples were doing. How the
disciples are living out their relationship with God
verses how the Pharisees and Scribes were living out
their relationship with God. Jesus just nails these guys. Calls them
hypocrites. Points
out how all their traditions were more important to
them than God’s word.
He calls them blind guides to the blind who are
leading their followers into a pit - to destruction. In the midst of that exchange Jesus makes
this statement to the people who were listening to all
this. Jesus
said, “Hear and understand: it is not
what goes into the mouth that defiles a person, but
what comes out of the mouth defiles a person… meaning great theology and doctrine and
righteous actions are all important - but what comes
out of our mouths demonstrates where a person really
is in their relationship with God. Jesus goes on: “whatever goes into the mouth
passes into the stomach and is expelled[.]
But what comes out of the mouth proceeds
from the heart, and this defiles a person - meaning defines their true relationship
with God. For out of the mouth come evil thoughts,
murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false
witness, slander.” (Matthew
15:1-20) Point being that we can claim to have our
act together before God.
But our words - when we stumble and we do - our
words will reveal what’s really going on in our
hearts. They
defile us. In processing what James is teaching here
- thinking about what’s coming out of our mouths -
what that says about our hearts and how all that
affects others around us - there are two statements
that James makes that it would be really easy for us
to skip past. Which
would be a shame.
Because those two statements open up huge
possibilities for us.
That is a hugely encouraging statement. It doesn’t
have to be this way.
As messed up as all this is - as much as we all
are stumbling around - getting tripped up by all this
- this isn’t the way it has to be. There is
another way. Isn’t that encouraging? James’ teaching isn’t about laying a
guilt trip on us about what we already know is true. James is
talking to fellow brothers in Christ - and sisters -
who desire to rise above all this. Isn’t that us today? Us - who way
too often have wanted a do over on some epic failure
of something we’ve said?
Us - who realize that there is a disconnect in
our faith? We
need the encouragement James is offering. It doesn’t
have to be this way. James is giving us an opportunity to ask
ourselves just where this inconsistency in my speech
is coming from? To
consider just what our tongue reveals about our hearts
- our faith - about what’s really going on in our
relationship with God.
Put simply:
James is offering us a moment of truth.
James writes that the tongue defiles. It shows us
that at the heart level if we’re
focused on ourselves - justifying - defending -
evading - trying to deal with our relationships with
others and God on our terms - not God’s James writes that the source of all that
is the pit of hell - demonic activity bent on
producing disorder and evil. What ought
to not be going on in our hearts. Its not of
God. If we’ve got all that going on in our
heart - we need to stop being so arrogant - to stop
letting Satan do a number on us - stop ignoring what’s
really going on and be honest - we need to accept
God’s truth about the condition of our heart. Which is another hugely encouraging thing
that James writes.
In verse 8 James writes: “no human being can tame the
tongue.” We can’t.
But, God can.
Who can? God. We need to surrender our attempts at
self-controlling our tongues. Meaning, in
the moment of truth that James is offering us we’ve
got to be honest about our own inability. Controlling our tongue is not going to
happen because we simply just try harder. We’ve done
that with obvious results. Controlling
our tongue is not going to happen as the result of
some Bible study or some self-help book or program -
as useful as those may be.
Ultimately control of the tongue only
comes as we surrender the core of who we are to God. This is a
spiritual issue of heaven and hell proportions - a
battle waged at the level of our hearts - that
requires our total surrender to God. Which is where the rubber meets the road
of real life - where all the things that James has
been describing about the tongue - break into how we
behave in our relationships with others - unleashing
the unrestrained influence and destructiveness of the
tongue. When our words - what comes from our
heart surrendered to God - when we’re from the heart
trusting God with everything we are - He will produce
from within us words with no sinful coming from hell
motive - no selfishness - no competitiveness. But words
that promote peace - are seasoned with gentleness -
consideration - compassion - mercy - sincerity - love. Producing
what can only come from the activity of God within us. Rather than
disorder and every evil thing - rather righteousness
is produced. People
are drawn ever closer to God. Remember Isaiah chapter 6? Consider
that scene in the context of what James writes. Isaiah before the throne of God. The angels
are singing. The
temple is trembling all the way down to the
foundations. The
whole place if filled with the presence of God. Remember
this? Isaiah - in that throne room - Isaiah
says, “There is no hope for me! I’m doomed
because every word that passes my lips is sinful, and
I live among a people whose every word is sinful. And yet,
with my own eyes I’ve seen the King, the Lord
Almighty.”
(Isaiah 6:1-17 GNB) The angel comes to Isaiah and touches his
mouth with a live coal - signifying the forgiveness of
Isaiah’s sin - purifying him from the lips on down to
his heart before God.
Then - and only then - is Isaiah ready to go
out and serve God.
To speak - to be used as God’s messenger. That’s what you and I need this morning. James’
moment of truth - honesty about ourselves before God. We’re all in
need of cleansing - from our tongues all the way down
to our hearts. We
need the touch of God on our mouths. And on our
lives. So
that what we say can be a blessing to others. And not a
curse. God gives us a choice. He invites
us to let Him touch our lives - to purify us - to
sanctify our lips - and do His work in our hearts. James’ point in this section of his
letter: Real
faith in real time produces real love. I was reading about Florence Nightingale. Remember
Florence? She
was a British nurse during the 19th century. At that
time, the military medical camps were very unsanitary. Florence
Nightingale fought hard to make them better. Which meant a lot of people didn’t like
her. The
doctors thought she was attacking them. They told
her she wasn’t welcome.
Even her own mother and sister criticized her. Attitudes
and circumstances that would led a lot of people to
give up. But Queen Victoria was one of her biggest
supporters. The
Queen kept encouraging Florence. “You’re a hero of the British
people. No
wonder the soldiers love you so much. Keep doing
what you’re doing.
Don’t give up!
Let me know if there’s any way I can help.”
The tongue is influential. That
influence can be used for good. The tongue
is powerful. But
that power doesn’t have to be destructive. It can be
used strengthen and uplift and encourage. Rather than
cursing God - or cursing people that God has created -
we have the opportunity to sow seeds of righteousness
- to lead people closer to God - to encourage them to
go deeper in their relationship with God - to hang in
there faithfully trusting God. What James says about the tongue should
alert us to a great opportunity. “It only takes a spark to get a
fire going” could be a good thing
_________________________ 1. Charles R. Swindoll, Insights on James, 1 and 2 Peter - Zondervan, 2010 Additional reference: Charles R.
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