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THE WOMEN AT THE WELL JOHN 4:1-42 Series: For Life - Part Eight Pastor Stephen Muncherian September 7, 2014 |
We are at John 4
- starting at verse 1 - the next event in the
beginning of Jesus’ ministry. Going on in
our study of the first 4 chapters of the Gospel of
John. This morning
Jesus is going to take His disciples - and us - on a
field trip.
Which works well for us - being about 3 weeks
into the new school year. As we’ve been
studying the first four chapters of John - we along
with the disciples and John’s readers - having been
learning about Jesus.
The history and truth behind what we believe
and what all that can mean for us as we do life in
real time. Over the past 3
chapters we’ve looked at what is the astounding
reality of Jesus - God - who has come into humanity -
the Word becoming flesh and taking our place on the
cross - dying in our place for our sins. And bodily
living again - His resurrection giving us hope of life
now and forever with God. The astounding
reality that anyone can come to Jesus as their Savior
- just as we are.
Just come.
If we do - God the Holy Spirit enters into us
making us spiritually alive towards God. Begins a
work of transformation - taking us from who we were -
as ugly as that might have been - and transforming us
into the people that God has created us to be. So that we
actually get to live lives that have real meaning and
purpose. We
get to lift up - to exalt - to glorify Jesus. To testify
about what God is doing in our lives and lead others
to Him. The question is: “What can all that look like for me?” Which is what our field trip is about. In chapter 4
we’re on the bus with Jesus. Remember
riding on school buses?
For some of us that may be a more way back
memory than for others.
Jesus is teaching Evangelism 101 and we’re off
on a field trip. Let’s jump into
the text. John
4 - starting at verse 1:
Now when Jesus learned that the Pharisees
had heard that Jesus was making and baptizing more
disciples than John (although Jesus Himself did not
baptize, but only His disciples), He left Judea and
departed again for Galilee. And He had
to pass through Samaria.
So He came to a town of Samaria called Sychar,
near the field that Jacob had given to his son Joseph. Jacob’s well
was there; so Jesus, wearied as He was from His
journey, was sitting beside the well. It was about
the sixth hour. Let’s pause
there. These
verses are The Setting of the field trip. John
calls our attention to four things. First - Jesus heads off towards Galilee because
there’s a growing potential for conflict with the
Pharisees in Judea. His
ministry was attracting attention for the wrong
reasons. The Pharisees
were already stressing over the ministry of John the
Baptist. What
John was doing and why.
But now Jesus’ ministry is growing bigger than
John’s. And
there appears to be some controversy and conflict
between the two ministries - at least that’s what it
looks like from Jerusalem. Last Sunday - we
looked at John the Baptist and an issue that came up
with John’s disciples who were struggling with the
rising popularity of Jesus’ ministry. John’s
disciples were getting bent out of shape because
Jesus’ disciples were baptizing more people than John
- the old numbers game.
Sides are being chosen. All of which
the Pharisees don’t seem to understand. Jesus - knowing
all that - and knowing that the time has not yet come
for Him to square off with the Pharisees. He will. Especially
in the week of ministry leading to the cross. When that
confrontation will serve Jesus’ purposes. But now is
not the time. So,
Jesus chooses to head north. Second - John calls our attention to the unusual
route Jesus took to go north. Helpful
if we see this on a map. The direct route
north from Jerusalem to Galilee - what is the purple
arrow there - is about a 70 mile route that would take
about 2 1/2 days walk.
The Jews instead opted for the longer route -
what is the pinkish arrow there. The route
down to the Jordan River and up the valley and on into
Galilee. What
was a hotter - more uncomfortable - route that was
about twice as long.
The reason
behind all that - briefly - the history behind all
that animosity is that when most of the Jews were
exiled into Assyria - in 722 BC - a small remnant of
Jews remained in the northern territory - think
Samaria. Those
remnant Jews intermarried with Gentiles that were
brought in from other countries. Meaning
mixed marriages - mixed religions - mixed cultures -
mixed morals. Meaning
that when the other Jews returned from exile there
were issues with the Jews that had stayed. Point being that
what’s behind those two routes is a deep seated -
going back generations long - animosity. Jews -
especially the most godly of all Jews, the Pharisees -
would never set foot in Samaria - let alone actually
talk with “one of those.” In the midst of
John’s point about routes, John tells us - verse 4 -
that Jesus “had to pass through Samaria.” It
would be easy to almost miss that emphasis on need. But that
“had to” is huge. The Greek verb
has the idea of “it was necessary.” While others
“had to” avoid Samaria to avoid contamination Jesus
“had to” go there.
To choose the wrong route for the right
reasons. The third
thing John calls our attention to is the place where Jesus stopped. We
need to be reminded that this spot is significant
historically to both the Jews and the Samaritans. Where Jesus
chooses to stop is the land that Jacob - who’s later
renamed Israel by God - Jacob a revered patriarch of
the Hebrews - Jacob purchased this land that he gave
as an inheritance to his sons. It was the
place where Joseph’s bones were buried after they were
brought up out of Egypt during the Exodus. It was in
the valley between Mt. Gerizim and Mt. Ebal that God’s
people reaffirmed their commitment to obey God - where
the blessings and curses of the law were read. About 1/2 mile
west of the village of Sychar is where Jacob dug a
well for his flocks and herds. Which is the
well where Jesus stops. The fourth thing that John calls our attention to
is the timing when all this took place. Verse 6 - “It was about the sixth hour.” Meaning - in the way that the Hebrews
kept track of time - it was about 12 o’clock noon. Midday. Which
becomes significant as we’re introduced to the woman
who comes to the well. In processing
the setting we need to see Jesus being very
intentional in where He’s come and stopped with His
disciples and when He’s chosen to stop there. Let’s go on and read
through verses 7 to 26 - which is The Conversation that takes place between Jesus and the
Samaritan Woman - and then we’ll come back and make a
few observations.
Hang on to something - take a deep breath - and
let’s read together: A woman from Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said
to her, “Give me a drink.” (For His
disciples had gone away into the city to buy food). The
Samaritan woman said to Him, “How is it that you, a
Jew, ask for a drink from me, a woman of Samaria?” (For Jews
have no dealings with Samaritans.) Jesus
answered her, “If you knew the gift of God, and Who it
is that is saying to you, ‘Give Me a drink,’ you would
have asked Him, and He would have given you living
water.” The
woman said to Him, “Sir, you have nothing to draw
water with, and the well is deep. Where do you
get that living water?
Are you greater than our father Jacob? He gave us
the well and drank from it himself, as did his sons
and his livestock.” Jesus said to her, “Everyone
who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, but
whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will
never be thirsty again.
The water that I will give him will become in
him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” The woman
said to Him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I will
not be thirsty or have to come here to draw
water.” Jesus said to her, “Go, call your
husband, and come here.”
The woman answered Him, “I have no
husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in
saying, ‘I have no husband’; for you have had five
husbands, and the one you now have is not your
husband. What
you have said is true.”
The woman said to Him, “Sir, I perceive that
you are a prophet.
Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you
say that in Jerusalem is the place where people ought
to worship.” Jesus said to her, “Woman, believe
me, the hour is coming when neither on this mountain
nor in Jerusalem will you worship the Father. You worship
what you do not know; we worship what we know, for
salvation is from the Jews. But the hour
is coming, and now is here, when true worshipers will
worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father
is seeking such people to worship Him. God is
spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in
spirit and truth.”
The woman said to Him, “I know that the Messiah
is coming (he who is called Christ). When he
comes, he will tell us all things.” “Jesus said
to her, “I who speak to you am He.” Whew. Still
breathing? Have
many of you have heard or read through this
conversation before?
Pretty familiar. Chuck Swindoll
in his commentary on this passage breaks this
conversation down into six cycles. Which you
can see on the screen.
Which is helpful in moving through this
conversation in a way that makes practical sense. Six times
Jesus engages this woman. Six times
she responds to Jesus.
Six times the conversation they have goes
around. Let’s unpack
those cycles and make a few helpful observations. Cycle number one begins with John telling us that a
Samaritan women makes the 1/2 mile trip out from
Scyhar to the well.
Notice that she comes alone rather than in a
group - which would have been safer. Notice that
she arrives at the sixth hour. Which is…
noon. Not
the hottest part of the day. But its
warming up. Not
the best time to be hauling heavy jars of water
around. Point
being she’s out there by herself and that’s not an
accident. She
is a moral outcast either choosing to be alone or made
to be alone.
John also tells
us that the disciples have gone into town to get
lunch. Which
means that Jesus has set this up so that this lone
woman coming to the well is going to meet a strange
man not a group of strange men. Way less
intimidating. And
with His disciples in town, Jesus - who has nothing to
draw water with - actually needs the help of this
woman. Jesus initiates
the conversation - asks for water - not out of
arrogance - or a command - but out of kindness. The New
Living paraphrase translates this as “Please give me a drink.” Which is more to the feeling behind what
Jesus said.
The tone of her
question is something like: “What are You doing asking me for a
drink? I
am so far beneath you - as a Samaritan - as a woman. You can’t
toss barriers like that aside.” Jesus breaks
with the tradition of the day - the nonsensical
customs of religion and culture - Jesus treats her
with mutual respect - kindness.
Cycle two - Jesus appeals to her curiosity. “If you only knew who you were talking to
you’d be asking Me for a drink and I’d have given you
living water.” In the area of
Samaria where they’re at - Jesus’ intentional setting
- where they’re at there are no rivers - no major
water supply. Either
you’ve got a well or you’ve got nothing. What’s
becoming a crucial issue around here. How
important is water?
In fact that’s why this woman has walked 1/2
mile out of town - alone - midday. For water. The emphasis in
Greek is on the “living” part of that water. Which she
picks up on. “Where do you get that living water?” Is a question of how a person gets
running water from a well with still water. There’s
curiosity in that.
But she’s not buying. Her response
is sarcastic.
Jacob - remember
Jesus’ intentional historical significance of the
well. Jacob
dug the well. Which
was about 60 feet deep.
Jesus has got nothing - no rope - no bucket. Nada. “Gift of God? Who do you
think you are? God’s
gift to women? Living
water? Are
you greater than Jacob - the great patriarch of the
Jews and Samaritans - offering us something greater
than he did? Dude,
your rope is a few feet shy of the waterline.” Cycle three - Jesus appeals to her spiritual need. Jesus goes with
her question - uses her question. Living water
- running - verses stagnant. “Its not physical water I’m talking
about. Its
water that will satisfy your deepest needs. Drink this
and you’ll never be thirsty again.” Sin had ravaged
this woman. Her
life was stagnant - spiritually and emotionally she’s
stopped living. She’s
just existing in Sychar.
Like so many people today she’s just occupying
space and waiting for death. Trying
somehow to fill the emptiness within and coming up
empty. Hopeless. Her response is
denial. To
get refocused on the physical water and having to
continually draw water from the well. Like so of
us when the conversation gets too close to home - too
deep - we try to take the conversation back to the
shallow end. We
don’t need to go to the deep end. There’s
enough we’re dealing with in the shallow end. Let’s stay
in the shallow end where we know we can exist with our
delicate balancing of pain and issues. “The real issue here is my having to come
out here and draw water from this well every day
because I’m thirsty.
Is your living water going to take care of that
need?” Cycle four - Jesus cuts through to her heart with a
seemingly innocent personal interest question. “Go, call your husband.” Jesus knows all
about this women’s history. Her deep
legitimate needs that she’s been trying desperately to
satisfy by illegitimate means. He knows
about her sexual promiscuousness. The men
she’s been with.
He’s touching on her deepest need by giving her
a personal dilemma to deal with. She changes the
subject. “Nope. No husband. You wasted
your turn. Next
subject.” Cycle number five - Jesus appeals to her conscience. “True.
But only half-true. In fact
there’ve been five husbands and you’re currently
living with temporary guy number six that you’re not
married to.” Jesus has just
taken this conversation to a whole new - you must deal
with this - level.
Welcome to the deep end. But let’s be
careful. Notice
that Jesus - in taking this conversation below the
level of surface chit chat - Jesus isn’t condemning or
shaming this woman - pointing out her moral failure -
exploiting her sin.
He’s just stating truth. Let’s just
deal with reality.
In fact, Jesus even commends her for her
honesty. “You are right in saying…” Her response is
what? Introduce
controversy. She’s
not feeling threatened enough to run away. She’s
engaged enough to play this out. But, she’s
not ready to deal with what Jesus is slowly bringing
to the surface. Jesus is a
Rabbi. Right? A Jew. Right? “Oh.
Sir. It
is way obvious that you are a man of great religious
understanding and training. You’ve been
to seminary. You’re
obviously very smart.
How do you reconcile man’s free will and God’s
sovereignty?” Only in her time and culture the issue
was where to worship the every where present God. Cycle six - Jesus doesn’t allow this women to
distract Him from the reason He “had to” come to
Sychar. Jesus
appeals to her need.
She needs what only Jesus can give her. Way too often we
fall for the sucker punch when we’re talking with
people. For
some of us that’s a question about Bible knowledge. There are
other sucker punches.
Sports. Politics. Movies. Knitting
techniques. Whatever
gets us monologueing and off focus - why God
intentionally created this moment and us for this
moment. The
person we’re talking with needs Jesus. Jesus is
focused. Let’s remember
that Jesus “had to” be here. He took the
wrong road north on purpose. The well is
like doing table.
The well is a location - a place to connect
with this woman who seemingly randomly has shown up. Water gets
the conversation flowing. Its a tool
to connect with.
Soularium cards - candy. The setting
- Jesus’ timing - His God space - is perfect. Jesus is
connecting. He’s
FARMing or FORMing.
He’s getting to know her. But more so
He’s allowed this women to see and feel what is His
genuine concern for her as a person. Not as an
object like so many other men see her. He’s treated
her with kindness and respect and dignity and
compassion. Jesus - focused
- Jesus uses her controversial question to bring her
back on topic. Its
impressive how He thinks on His feet. The earthly
location of worship is not what’s most important. The object
of worship is all about heaven - not Samaria or
Jerusalem. This
incredible historical spot is not what’s most
important. The
quality of worship - see how He comes back to the
heart - spiritual need - worship is in spirit and
truth - what’s going on in your heart is what’s most
important. She tries one
more time to not go there. To delay
having to deal with the issue. The
Samaritans expected the Messiah to be more like Moses
was. Someone
who declared God’s truth and explained what God was
talking about. Her response is
something like: “Who can really know about things
like that? Until
the Messiah actually comes we’re not going to know the
answer to that question.
Until Jesus comes back why should we waste time
thinking about stuff like that? So, let’s
move on.” Which is where
Jesus has been going in this conversation since before
He left Jerusalem. Verse 26 is the
bottom line - what this whole conversation comes down
to: “Jesus said to her, “I who speak
to you am He.” The Greek is
even more emphatic.
Not to get lost in a word study. But the
Greek sentence puts the verb first. The emphasis
is on the “I am” part.
“I am the one speaking to you.” It’s the same
words in Greek that the Greek Old Testament uses to
translate God’s self-disclosure to Moses. “I am who I am.” (Exodus 3:14). Both the Jews
and the Samaritans got it. They
understood. It
was these “I am” statements of Jesus that the
religious leaders later used to accuse Jesus of
blasphemy. Jesus bypassing
all the distractions - all the deflections - all the
defenses - to lay out the ultimate truth in front of
her. “Right on. Your wait is
over. I
am the Messiah.” She understood
what Jesus was saying.
Jesus is claiming to be God. God who has
intentionally come to this deeply needy woman to offer
her living water - life.
He is - Jesus is - the answer to her deepest
need. To
our deepest need. Are we together? Let’s go on to The Return of the disciples. Let’s read
together - verse 27:
Just then His disciples came back. They
marveled that He was talking with a woman, but no one
said, “What do you seek?” or, “Why are you talking
with her?” So
the woman left her water jar and went away into town
and said to the people, “Come, see a man who told me
all that I ever did.
Can this be the Christ?” They went
out of the town and were coming to Him.
The woman - for
whom this is also awkward - seemingly forgets about
getting water from the well. She leaves
her pot. Heads
back into town. And
starts talking to people about Jesus. The way verse 29
reads in Greek there’s more behind what she’s saying
that what she’s actually saying. The question
is actually expecting a negative answer. “This can’t be the Christ? Can it?” The evidence she
gives when she asks the question and the way she asks
the question lets us know that she’s already made up
her mind. “Well, yes I believe He is the
Christ.” The issues in
their conversation that she was trying to avoid - all
those details about her life - those actually are a
confirmation of her spiritual hope. He really is
the Messiah. Her
testimony moves the town to seek out Jesus. Let’s go on reading
at verse 31: Meanwhile the disciples were
urging Him, saying, “Rabbi, eat.” But He said
to them, “I have food to eat that you do not know
about.” So
the disciples said to one another, “Has anyone brought
Him something to eat?”
Jesus said to them, “My food is to do the will
of Him who sent me and to accomplish His work. Do you not
say, ‘There are yet four months, then comes the
harvest. Already
the one who reaps is receiving wages and gathering
fruit for eternal life, so that the sower and reaper
may rejoice together.
For here the saying holds true, ‘One sows and
another reaps.’
I sent you to reap that for which you did not
labor. Others
have labored, and you have entered into their labor..” That this
conversation was recorded for us gives us a pretty
good idea that - Jesus and His Evangelism 101 class -
there was teaching that took place. Jesus
explaining what the disciples are seeing as they came
back to the well - Jesus and the woman and what went
on in that conversation.
How to step into God space. Do clip
board. Table. Or, in this
case: Well. What we’ve
been given a glimpse of. John records two
important lessons that Jesus also includes with that
teaching. First: There are more important things in life
than food. Hard
to imagine. There are more
important things in life than clothing and shelter and
water and sports and Xbox and Facebook and Disney and
getting distracted by controversies that stroke our
ego and on and on and on. More
important things than our little petty temporal
focused on us immediate gratification needs getting
met that really don’t mean a whole lot of nothing in
the eternal working of God’s universe. Obedience to the
word of God - obedience to God’s leading is more
important than food or immediate gratification or
anything else that we might let get us off our God
created for purpose in life. Life is about…
God. Whatever
we’re doing in life is to be about God’s purpose for
giving us life and sustaining our lives. Whatever
we’re doing in life is to be about God’s purpose for
saving us and transforming us and enabling us to be
useful for Him. Which
is to glorify Him - to exalt Jesus. Not us. Him.
Which may run
counter intuitive to our understanding of culture and
religion and the methods of reaching the perishing
with the Gospel.
Which may mean getting out of our box of
understanding and comfort and timing. Our
hesitancies and hang ups. The time to
harvest is when God says its time to harvest not when
we say its time to harvest. Its God who
prepares the harvest.
Its His harvest.
He knows who’s been sowing and laboring and how
the crop is being prepared. He
understands what’s going on in the field infinitely
better than we do.
He knows the timing and means of our working in
that field. God is
continually placing before us huge and amazing and
wonderful opportunities that are there if we would
just be looking for them and allowing Him to lead us
into them. In the words of
the great Jean-Luc Picard. Now is the
time to “Engage.”
And to keep on harvesting until God says stop. Are we together? In verses 39 to 42
John records The Faith of the Samaritans. Read with me: Many Samaritans from that town believed
in Him because of the woman’s testimony, “He told me
all that I ever did.”
So when the Samaritans came to Him, they asked
Him to stay with them, and He stayed there two days. And many
more believed because of His word. They said to
the woman, “It is no longer because of what you said
that we believe, for we have heard for ourselves, and
we know that this is indeed the Savior of the world.” John brings us
back from the lecture to the living illustration. Two
observations. First:
They’re ordinary people.
This woman is
not a trained - been to Bible school - theologian. She’s just a
new believer. She
doesn’t give a well ordered explanation or lead the
town in some kind of sinners prayer. She doesn’t
have a tool like “Knowing God Personally.” She even has
trouble explaining what it is she believes - why she
thinks Jesus is the Messiah. She just
reports on the encounter she had with Jesus and a
whole town comes to Jesus. The people of
Sychar - the entire town of Sychar heads out to
discover for themselves what this woman has been
testifying about.
Unlike the trained religious leadership back
guarding the Temple in Jerusalem - the place where
people were suppose to worship God - these mongrel
Samaritans welcomed Jesus and asked Him to teach. The result
was that “many more believed.” Second observation: They’re
focused on Jesus. Notice how the
Scyharians come to Jesus because of what the woman
says. And
then they come to believe in Him because of what He
says. This woman -
like John the Baptist - knew when to get out of the
way - to decrease - this woman steps aside. For the
town’s people - people coming to Jesus is all about
Jesus - learning from Him. It would be way
too tempting for us to imagine that we are the end
users of all that John has written and that God has
blessed us with in understanding. Believing
these things and so trusting God with our lives -
gaining the life that He gives us in Jesus - isn’t
about us. Its
about testimony - exalting Jesus. What God
desires to do in us and through us to His glory. Three brief
points of application for us as we head out there. Number one: We need to let go of our prejudice. Our
Creator doesn’t rank us on a scale based on our
worthiness - our ethnicity - our hang-ups - our
intelligence - our body markings or piercings. We are all
unworthy of salvation and yet we are all equally loved
by God. Number two: We need to let go of the routine details
of life. Ultimately life
isn’t about food or clothing or water or our schedule
or how we make a living or our grades. I realize I
may be on thin ice with parents about the grades. But, when
was the last time you set that aside to share the
Gospel with someone.
Isn’t eternity more important than the NFL? Number three: We need to let go of tomorrow. We have this
attitude where we assume that tomorrow will come. But while
we’re finding excuses about harvesting people are
dying and going into eternity without Jesus. None of us
knows if tomorrow will come. There are only
two days that we need to be focused on. The day that
Jesus comes back.
Which is a coming day of judgment and a day of
rejoicing - a day when days will no longer matter. The other day we
need to be focused on is today. Right here
and right now. God
has given us this day with purpose. Not four
months from now.
But now. _________________________ General
reference for this message: “The Man Who Understood Women” - sermon shared by Ray Stedman from John
4:1-42, May 29, 1983
General
Reference for this series: Charles R.
Swindoll, “Insights On John: Swindoll’s
New Testament Insights,” Zondervan,
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