I MARRIED MOTHER JUDGES 13:1-14:20 Series: Heroes of Faith - Part Six Pastor Stephen Muncherian August 7, 2005
Please turn
with me to Judges 13.For
the next three Sundays - as we’re looking
at Heroes of Faith - for the next three Sundays we’re
going to be
looking at Samson.As
you’re turning to
Judges 13, I’d like to catch us up to where we are in
the book of
Judges - then - as we’ve been doing each Sunday -
we’ll go through the
passage - then talk about some application to our
lives.
By the way - last Sunday we went through 3
chapters and 40 plus verses.Today
we’re
only going through 2 chapters and 45 verses.So
you can relax your grip on the safety bar.Just
keep your hands and feet inside the sanctuary until
the sermon has come
to a complete stop.
Jephthah - remember him from last Sunday?After Jephthah defeated the
Ammonites Jephthah
judged Israel for 6 years.During
that
time there was a really bloody civil war - 42,000
Ephraimites are
killed.God’s people
killing God’s people.Then
there’s a series of minor judges.Minor because why?Because
they’re
not major.Ibzan, Elon,
and Abdon
- who we really don’t know a whole about.Except
that between them they judged Israel for 25 years.
Which brings us to 13:1.Now
the sons of Israel again did evil in the sight of the
Lord, so that the
Lord gave them into the hands of the Philistines forty
years.There was a
certain man of Zorah, of the
family of the Danites, whose name was Manoah; and his
wife was barren
and had borne no children.Then
the angel
of the Lord appeared to the woman and said to her,
“Behold now, you are
barren and have borne no children, but you shall
conceive and give
birth to a son.Now
therefore, be careful
not to drink wine or strong drink, nor eat any unclean
thing.For behold you
shall conceive and give birth
to a son, and no razor shall come upon his head, for
the boy shall be a
Nazirite to God from the womb; and he shall begin to
deliver Israel
from the hands of the Philistines.”
Let’s pause there.There
are three
things here that are important for us to notice.
First - verse 1
is the beginning of the seventh
time through the cycle of sin.Remember
this?God’s people
turning away from God.God
allowing His people to be oppressed - in
this case by the Philistines.
If you’ve been with us for a while - what’s
the next step in the cycle?God’s
people
crying out to God for deliverance.Did you
see that here?Looking at
how this seventh
cycle begins its important to see that God’s people
have never cried
out to God.This is how
far God’s people
have slid into sin.
At the beginning of Judges - the first time
through the cycle - the people are crying out to God.Then last Sunday - remember
with Jephthah- the
people cried out to God for deliverance.But it wasn’t sincere repentance.They only wanted to avoid the consequences of
their sin -
not to really open their lives to God.
Here in chapter 13 - there’s not even a
pretense of repenting.The
point being
that God’s people are so far away from God that they
aren’t even
looking to God for deliverance.
Second - we need
to notice the situation of
Manoah’s wife.
Manoah and his wife are living in Hawaii.Well, sounds kind of
Hawaiian doesn't it?Manoah?Manoah
and his wife are living in the region of Dan.Dan
is out on the coast in Philistine occupied Israel.Meaning that Mr. and Mrs.
Manoah are getting the brunt of
the oppression.God sends
an angel to the
wife of Manoah - who hasn’t been able to bear children
- the angel
tells her that she’s going to be the mother of
Israel’s deliverer.
That’s significant.In
Scripture God purposefully uses children born to
barren women to let
His people know that something really special is going
on.In Scripture when we
see someone childless having a child
we need to think to our self, “Self,
God is doing
something really important here.Don’t
miss it.”
The point being that God is at work here.Pay attention.
Third - there
are these unusual Nazirite
instructions.
Normally, if someone loved God - wanted to
draw closer to Him - they might make a Nazirite vow.Which meant that they
wouldn’t touch a dead body or
something unclean.They
abstained from
beer or anything produced from grapes - raisins -
wine.And, for as long as
they were keeping their vow they
wouldn’t cut their hair - outward reminders of what
God was doing
inside the person.
A person made a choice - for a period of time
- to do those things that would help them deepen their
relationship
with God.
But here there’s no personal taking of the
vow.Its God who’s doing
a God thing - in
the life of His people - in the life of Mr. and Mrs.
Manoah.From before birth
until he dies this child is
God’s.
The point being that this unique child is
born for God’s special purposes.
Going on - verse 6 - hang onto your safety
bar:Then the
woman came and
told her husband, saying “A man of God came to me and
his appearance
was like the appearance of the angel of God, very
awesome.And I did not
ask him where he came from, nor did he tell
me his name.But he said
to me, ‘Behold,
you shall conceive and give birth to a son, and now
you shall not drink
wine or strong drink nor eat any unclean thing, for
the boy shall be a
Nazirite to God from the womb to the day of his
death.’”Then Manoah
entreated the Lord and said, “O Lord, please
let the man of God whom You have sent come to us again
that he may
teach us what to do for the boy who is to be born.”God listened to the voice of
Manoah; and the angel of God
came again to the woman as she was sitting in the
field, but Manoah her
husband was not with her.So
the woman ran
quickly and told her husband, “Behold, the man who
came the other day
has appeared to me.”Then
Manoah arose and
followed his wife, and when he came to the man he said
to him, “Are you
the man who spoke to the woman?”And he
said, “I am.”Manoah
said, “Now when your
words come to pass, what shall be the boy’s mode of
life and his
vocation?”So the
angel of the Lord
said to Manoah, “Let the woman pay attention all that
I said.She should not
eat anything that comes from
the vine nor drink wine or strong drink, nor eat any
unclean thing; let
her observe all that I commanded.”Then
Manoah said to the angel of the Lord, “Please let us
detain you so that
we may prepare a young goat for you.”The
angel of the Lord said to Manoah, “Though you detain
me, I will not eat
your food, but if you prepare a burnt offering, then
offer it to the
Lord.”For Manoah did not
know that he was
the angel of the Lord.Manoah
said to the
angel of the Lord, “What is your name, so that when
your words come to
pass, we may honor you?”But
the angel of
the Lord said to him, “Why do you ask my name, seeing
it is wonderful?”So
Manoah took the young goat with the grain
offering and offered it on the rock to the Lord, and
He performed
wonders while Manoah and his wife looked on.For
it came about when the flame went up; from the altar
toward heaven,
that the angel of the Lord ascended in the flame of
the altar.When Manoah
and his wife saw this, they fell
on their faces to the ground.Now
the
angel of the Lord did not appear to Manoah or his wife
again.Then Manoah knew
that he was the angel of the
Lord.So Manoah said to
his wife, “We will
surely die, for we have seen God.”But his
wife said to him, “If the Lord had desired to kill us,
He would not
have accepted a burnt offering and a grain offering
from our hands, nor
would He have shown us all these things, nor would He
have let us hear
things like this at this time.”
Let’s pause there.There
are two
things that we need to grab onto here.
First - the
identity of the angel.
Manoah offers to bar-b-que a goat for the
angel.Some of that great
Hebrew
hospitality.When in
doubt - serve food.In
verse 16 - the angel refuses the food.But, asks for a burnt offering - worship.Worship is a God thing.
When Manoah asks the angel what his name is -
in verse 18, the angel says, “Wonderful.”Sound familiar?Isaiah 9:6:“For a
child will be born
to us, a son will be given to us...and His name will
be called
Wonderful Counselor...”
In verse 20 - Manoah and his wife - after the
wonders and the angel going up in flames - Manoah and
wife finally get
it and fall down in worship.
In verse 22 -
Manoah is very specific, “We’ve
seen God.”The
angel is the preincarnate Jesus.
This is like one of those Star Trek space
time continuum paradox things.Except
this is a God thing.Jesus
announcing to a
barren woman that she’s going to have a son who’s
going to deliver His
people.Think about that.
Nobody is crying out to God.Not
even Mr. and Mrs. Manoah.Not
even
for a child.But God -
because of His
grace and mercy and love - steps into the lives of His
people - right
down there with them at the homestead - God comes down
to provide for
their deliverance.He
comes and speaks
lovingly - directly to Manoah and his wife -
reassuring them that He is
a work - telling them what He is about doing for their
deliverance.
Isn’t that a
God thing?Jesus
coming.Dying on the
cross for us.God
providing for our spiritual deliverance
even before we knew we needed a deliverer.
The point is that despite being rejected by
His people - God has not rejected them.God
is with His people - working to deliver them from the
Philistines.
Second - its
important for us to notice that Manoah
is a few sandwiches shy of a picnic.Try
that together, “Manoah is a few
sandwiches shy of a picnic.”
Its significant that Jesus first comes to
Mrs. Manoah.When Mrs.
Manoah tells Manoah
what happened - what Jesus said - Manoah doesn’t seem
to understand.He asks
God to send the angel back.When
Jesus comes back Manoah asks, “What
kind of life is the
boy suppose to have.What
kind of work
will he do?”
What part of Nazirite did you not understand?Somehow Manoah isn’t getting
this.
In verse 13 Jesus tells Manoah, “Manoah,
its okay.Don’t worry
about it.Just
let your wife do what I tell her to do.”
In verse 22 - when Manoah says, “God’s
going to kill us.”Its Mrs.
Manoah who says, “Manoah.If
He wanted to kill us we be dead already.”She really is the
brains of the operation.
The bottom line is that - unfortunately -
because Manoah’s elevator doesn’t reach the top floor
- his wife has
taken over the home.
Verse 24:Then the
woman gave birth
to a son and named him Samson;
God told Hagar - call him Ishmael.Directed Abraham - name him Isaac.God tells Zacharias - name
the boy John.God tells
Mary - tells Joseph - name the baby
Jesus.Unique birth after
unique birth in
Scripture - where God is doing something significant
through the life
of a child - God telling the parents what to name the
child.
Who gives Samson his name?Mrs.
Manoah - the brains of the operation.
Samson means “Sun” - s-u-n.Or
“brightness.”Not exactly
a manly man’s name that a father might give.Jephthah
- “Mighty man of valor” - that’s a manly man’s name.“Brightness” is the kind of
name a mother - captivated by
the uniqueness and potential of her son - a smothering
- domineering -
doting mother might give her boy - the wonder child
promised by God.Brightness
in our home.The
shining star of our people.Samson
is
momma’s boy.
Share that with the person next to you, “He’s
momma’s boy.”
Verse 24:Then the
woman gave birth
to a son and named him Samson; and the child grew up
and the Lord
blessed him.And the
Spirit of the Lord
began to stir him in Mahaneh-dan, between Zorah and
Eshtaol.
Notice - despite the dysfunctional family
background - God blesses Samson.God has a
purpose.God is working
in the lives of
His people.Samson is
God’s designated
deliverer.
Chapter 14:Then
Samson went down to
Timnah and saw a woman in Timnah, one of the daughters
of the
Philistines.So he came
back and told his
father and mother, “I saw a woman in Timnah, one of
the daughters of
the Philistines; now therefore, get her for me as a
wife.”
That’s custom.The
parents - or a yenta - someone who arranges the
marriage - makes the
introductions - arranges for a meeting with the
parents - the boys
parents cough up a few chickens and a goat - and there
you go - you’re
married.What’s not good
is that she’s a
Philistine.
Verse 3:Then his
father and his
mother said to him, “Is there no woman among the
daughters of your
relatives, or among all our people, that you go to
take a wife from the
uncircumcised Philistines?”But
Samson
said to his father, “Get her for me, for she looks
good to me.”
Samson has no clue what a partnership of a
Godly husband and wife - what Godly marriage looks
like.He’s got Manoah and
wife as an example.Wives
are objects of lust.Husbands
are
idiots.“She
looks good.I’m in lust.Get
her.”
Verse 4:However,
his father and
mother did not know that it was of the Lord, for He
was seeking an
occasion against the Philistines,.Now at
that time the Philistines were ruling over Israel.
When the Hebrews conquered the Promised Land
God told them, “Don’t intermarry with
the people there.”God’s people did
intermarry and it led to spiritual
disaster.(Deuteronomy
7:3)At the beginning of
Judges - intermarriage was what got
God’s people into trouble in the first place (Judges
3:6).Samson’s parents -
even though they “did not know” that God would use this and
despite God’s
warnings - they went ahead with the marriage anyway.Because “Brightness” wanted
it.
Verse 5:Then
Samson went down to
Timnah with his father and mother, and came as far as
the vineyards of
Timnah; and behold a young lion came roaring toward
him.The Spirit of the
Lord came upon him mightily, so that he
tore him as one tears a young goat though he had
nothing in his hand - no weapon - but he did not tell his
father or mother what he had done.So he
went down and talked to the woman; and she looked good
to Samson.When he
returned later to take her - that’s romantic - when he
came back to club
her over the head and drag her off by the hair to his
cave - he turned aside to look
at the carcass of the lion; and behold, a swarm of
bees and honey were
in the body of the lion.So
he scraped the
honey into his hands and went on, eating as he went.When he came to his father
and mother, he gave some to
them and they ate it; but he did not tell them that he
had scraped the
honey out of the body of the lion.Then
his father went down to the woman; and Samson made a
feast there, for
the young men customarily did this.When
they saw him, they brought thirty companions to be
with him.
An Armenian immigrant knew very little
English and was having difficulty finding a job.One
of his friends suggested that he go to the zoo and ask
for a
maintenance job.The zoo
gave him a job -
but not as a maintenance person.They gave
him the job of wearing a bear suit - entering a cage -
and entertaining
children.His cage was
just above the
lion’s cage and - while he was performing his bear
antics - he lost his
balance and fell into the lion’s cage.
The lion chased him into a corner and he
began screaming - afraid the lion would tear him
apart.He shouted in
Armenian as the lion got closer to him.Then the lion whispered to him in Armenian, “Keep
quiet, you fool, or
we’ll both lose our jobs.”
Samson takes
on this lion and rips it shreds.
Two things to
notice here.
First - Samson
takes honey out of the carcass -
fear factor stuff.The
carcass - a dead
thing and a lion - was unclean.To
touch
it was to violate God’s law.Just
like
with the marriage - which is totally against God’s law
- Samson - as a
Nazirite should never have touched the thing
(Leviticus 11:27).Then
Samson doesn’t tell his parents - lies to
them about the honey.So
they become
unclean.The only person
Samson cares
about is Samson.
Second - notice
- The Spirit of the Lord gives
Samson the strength to kill the lion.Despite
Samson’s disregard for God - God uses Samson.God
is still gracious and merciful.God
is
still doing the God thing.
Verse 12:Then
Samson said to them - these 30 men who came to the wedding feast
- “Let me
now propound a riddle to you; if you will indeed tell
it to me within
the seven days of the feast, then I will give you
thirty linen wraps
and thirty changes of clothes.But
if you
are unable to tell me, then you shall give me thirty
linen wraps and
thirty changes of clothes.” - valuable
gifts - a significant wager.
Notice also the 7 days of feasting.Wine flowing freely.Of
course
Samson - who as a Nazirite wasn’t suppose to touch
wine.Samson never
touched a drop.Yeah.Right.
And they said to him,
“Propound your riddle, that we may hear it.”So
he said to them, “Out of the eater came something to
eat, and out of
the strong came something sweat.”But they
could not tell the riddle in three days.Then
it came about on the fourth day that they said to
Samson’s wife,
“Entice your husband, so that he will tell us the
riddle, or we will
burn you and your father’s house with fire.Have
you invited us to impoverish us?Is this
not so?”Samson’s wife
wept before him and
said, “You only hate me, and you do not love me; you
have propounded a
riddle to the sons of my people, and have not told it
to me.”And he said to
her, “Behold, I have not told
it to my father or mother; so should I tell you?”However
she wept before him seven days while their feast
lasted.And on the
seventh day he told her because she pressed him
so hard.She then told
the riddle to the
sons of her people.
Did you see the leaving and cleaving part
here?The two becoming
one?(Genesis 2:24)Not there.Mrs. Samson who values her family more than
her husband.Samson who
values his parents
more than his wife.Mrs.
Samson whining to
get her way.Samson - the
bright boy who
is as dim a bulb as his father - Samson giving over
leadership in the
home to his wife.He’s
married mother and
another dysfunctional family is born.
Verse 18:So the
men of the city
said to him on the seventh day before the sun went
down, “What is
sweeter than honey?And
what is stronger
than a lion?”And he said
to them, “If you
had not plowed with my heifer, you would not have
found out my riddle.”
Isn’t that a great line?“You
all plowed with my heifer.”“You
used my
wife.The old heifer.”Such love.
Then the Spirit of the
Lord came upon him mightily, and he went down to
Ashkelon and killed
thirty of them and took their spoil and gave the
changes of clothes to
those who told the riddle - paid
off his debt.And his
anger burned and
he went up to his father’s house.But
Samson’s wife was given to his companion who had been
his friend.Lucky
guy.
Once again the Spirit of the Lord comes upon
Samson.God bails him out
of another
ridiculous situation.
Two thoughts of application.First:The
Importance of Honesty.Try that with
me, “The importance of
honesty.”
Steve Zeisler calls Samson, “The Mike
Tyson of the
ancient world.”
Jesus foretold his birth.He
is uniquely set-apart by God for God’s purposes.And yet, with so much going
for him - all the
other judges achieve so much more with so much less.
The child deliverer is this wild out of
control passive/aggressive self-centered momma’s boy
who’s enticed by
things Philistine - the women - the parties - the
culture.His life is
controlled by what is around him rather than
God.He lives as an
ungodly man with
little - if any - regard for the things of God.
It is important for us to understand that
Samson - while used of God - while in touch with God -
with long
Nazirite hair flowing - even looks Godly - Samson has
never really
honestly opened himself up to God.
How easy it is for us to go along -
occasionally experiencing the movement of the Spirit
in our lives - to
know God’s promises - to experience God’s deliverance
- to be used by
God - share outward rituals of our faith - even
communion.But we only
allow God to go so far.We
indulge
our appetite for sin.To
be
controlled by our own self will or the influences of
what’s around us.We’re
reckless - self-destructive.Never
really allowing the fullness of who God
is to penetrate into the depths of our hearts and to
fulfill the
potential that God has uniquely created us for.
That’s hard to hear.But,
can we be honest together?There’s
a lot
of Samson in each of us.
Second thought:The
Importanceof what?Trusting
God.Every
Sunday we seem to keep coming back to this.Try
that with me, “The
importance of trusting God.”
Remember Bob Dylan?Slow
Train Coming?
You might be
the Ambassador to England or France; You might like to
gamble, you
might like to dance; You might be the
heavyweight
champion of the world; You might be a
socialite with a
long string of pearls, But whatever way
it goes,
you're gonna have to serve somebody. Well, it might be
the devil, or
it might be the Lord, But you're gonna
have to serve
somebody.
That’s
the
bottom line
isn’t it?We all serve
somebody.We all have
choices.Who
to serve.Who has control
over our hearts.
Despite ourselves God is so gracious to us -
when we mess up and wander off into sin.He
reaches into our lives - frees - upholds - heals.Time
and time again He demonstrates that He really does
love us.That He desires
to bless us.To do for us
and in us what is really for our best.To use us significantly - for the purposes He
created us.Isn’t the
better choice to
give ourselves completely over to God?