SAY WHAT YOU MEAN & MEAN
WHAT YOU SAY MATTHEW 5:33-37 Series: Life With Our Father - Part Four Pastor Stephen Muncherian October 14, 2007
Does anybody know what tomorrow
is the 16th anniversary of?Don’t you just love these
quizzes?
Does these people look familiar?Anita Hill
and Justice Clarence Thomas.
July 1, 1991 - President Bush the First nominated
Clarence Thomas to replace Justice Thurgood Marshall -
which began the bizarre and controversial confirmation
hearings that had little to do with truth and whole
lot to do with politics.What really did happen?Don’t know.Is it
important?Tomorrow
is the 16th anniversary of Judge Thomas’ confirmation
as an Associate Supreme Court Justice.
What about this person? Two weeks ago
Marion Jones - who won 5 medals at the Sydney Olympics
- who was called one of the greatest women athletes in
the world.Two
weeks ago Marion Jones admitted toa US
District Court Judge that she lied to investigators
about her using banned performance enhancing drugs.Her Olympic
performance was a lie.
One more:Take
a look at this car. The ad shows the rear end of a
beautifully conditioned Audi.The rest of
the car is a pile of junk.
The question on the job application read, “Have you ever been
arrested?”The applicant printed the word
“No” inthe space.The next
question was a follow-up to the first.It asked, “Why?”Not realizing he didn’t have to
answer this part, the applicant wrote, “I guess it’s because I
never got caught.”
Please turn with me to Matthew 5 - starting at verse
33.In
the passage we’re coming to this morning Jesus is
going to take on the dishonesty in our relationships.
The distrust - the lying - the deceit - that is way
too often prevalent in how people deal with each
other.
Jesus is where? Out on a hill by the Sea of
Galilee talking to who?a large diverse crowd of people.He’s taking
the unimaginable - hard to wrap our minds around -
reality of God and His kingdom - and bringing all that
down to the reality of where we live our lives.Teaching us
what it means for us to live in relationship with the
Sovereign God down on the level where we live life.
Jesus has been teaching that God and His kingdom isn’t
about us somehow reaching up to God - trying to
achieve some kind of righteousness - but that God has
reached down to us.Brought His presence into our lives.Blessed us
with His presence and given purpose to our lives.
The section of Jesus’ teaching that we began last
Sunday - that we’re looking at today - Jesus is
focusing on our relationships with others - how those who live in relationship with the
living God - that’s us - how we are to live out that
relationship with others.
Matthew 5 - starting at verse 33:Again, you have heard that
the ancients were told, “You shall not make false
vows, but shall fulfill your vows to the Lord.”But I say
to you…”
Let’s pause there.There’s a pattern that Jesus follows in this
part of His teaching. First - He quotes a
commandment or law from the Old Covenant - “You have heard that the
ancients were told...” - in verse
33 He’s summarizing law from different places in the
Old Testament - bringing then together into one
concise teaching.(c.f. Exodus 20:7;Leviticus 19:12; Numbers 30:2;
Deuteronomy 23:21-23)
Second part of the pattern: Jesus applies
that commandment or law in a teaching that exposes the
deeper implications of what all that means for those
He’s teaching - “But I say to you…”
Point being:
Jesus isn’t talking about Scripture - like a rabbi or
theologian. Jesus is teaching with Divine
authority as to what it means to live out our
relationship with God in our relationships with
others.
Let’s go on in verse 34:But I say to you, make no oath
at all, either by heaven, for it is the throne of God,
or by the earth, for it is the footstool of His feet,
or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.Nor shall
you make an oath by your head, for you cannot make one
hair white or black.
We need to stop there and make sure that we’re clear
about two things.
First:
We need to be clear about the meaning of the laws
that Jesus summarizes in verse 33.In other words - if we were a
first century Jew listening to Jesus what should be
going through our minds when we heard Jesus summarize
these laws.
Remember Rodney Dangerfield?October 5th was the third
anniversary of Rodney’s death.What was
his most famous line?“I don’t get no respect.”Say that with me.“I don’t get no respect.”If you can picture Rodney
Dangerfield as God then you’ve got handle on what
Jesus is getting at here.These laws are about respecting
God.
Names for the Hebrews were a profound thing.Your name
was who you were - your reputation - the summary and
representation of your character.With a good
name you were respected.With a bad name you were
dishonored.In Scripture,
the “name” of God is the description of who He is -
God’s reputation - His character - His nature.
In the Bible there are a number of different names for God
that God uses to reveal different aspects of His
character or how He deals with humankind.The two most significant are Elohim - which
describes the fullness of God’s divine power.The second
name is Yahweh - which describes God as the One who
always has been - always is - and always will be.God who is - absolute -
unchangeable - holy.Sometimes
those names are used together - the Lord God - even
more awesome to consider.
Yahweh is the name God uses when entering into
relationship with His people.
When
God meets Moses at the burning bush, Moses says to
God, “You’re sending me back to Egypt
to the people of Israel to tell them that the God of
your fathers has sent me.They’re going to ask me, ‘What
is His name?’What
should I tell them?”
God
answers Moses - what? “I AM WHO I AM.” Same
name - “I AM” - “Yahweh.”
The amazing reality is that this almighty awesome God
- Yahweh - enters into a relationship with His people
- opens the door for them - for us - to know Him.
In the third commandment - Moses and the Ten
Commandments - God commands His people:“You shall not take the
name of the Lord - Yaheweh - your God - Elohim - in what?vain, for the Lord - Yahweh - will not leave him
unpunished who takes His name in vain.” (Exodus 20:7)
The third command says what?“Don’t use the name of your
awesome - almighty - relationship establishing - God
in vain.”
Then there’s God’s warning.“Misuse My name and there will
be punishment.”This is serious stuff.
Don’t drag God’s name down into the gutter.Don’t
trivialize God’s name.When we trivialize the name of God - we
trivialize who He is.Don’t misuse the name of God.When we
misuse God’s name we disrespect God.
Notice also who God is speaking to:“You shall not take the
name of the Lord your God in vain” - “your God.”He’s talking to His people.
When a non-believer misuses God’s name it bothers us -
and it should.But
they don’t know God.They don’t have a relationship with Him.When God’s
people misuse God’s name it disrespects God - trashes
the name - the character - the reputation of the God
who loved us so passionately that He sent only Son to
die in our place on the cross to establish our
relationship with Him.
God’s people don’t trash His name.We’re
called on to respect Him.To honor Him.To give our
lives to Him.God
holds us accountable to respect Him.
The third command and the laws that Jesus is
summarizing out on that hill - at their core they’re
about respecting God..To respect God’s name is to respect God.
Let’s say that together, “To respect God’s name is
to respect God.”
Going back to the people sitting on the hill listening
to Jesus - what they should be thinking - to make a
vow - using God’s name - Yahweh - the almighty
self-existent God who’s chosen to have a relationship
with us - to make a vow using God’s name - and then
break it - is disrespecting God - punishable by God -
a very very serious thing to be avoided.
The second thing we need to be clear about is
Jesus’ application of these laws to where we live
life.
Years ago - a lot of years ago - when I was as student
at Biola - there was a girl I wanted to take out on a
date.But
the only way she would consent to go out with me was
if she could bring her friend.Which meant
that I had to find a date for this other girl.
I asked every guy I knew.Everyone had something to do -
most of it legitimate.The best I could find was some guys who were
available early in the evening and some guys who could
come later.Which
I figuredwas
good enough because I really wanted to go out with
this girl.So
I called her up and said, “I got a date for your
friend.Let’s
go out.”
At the time it seemed like such a little deception
with a big payoff - going out with this girl.
So this girl, her friend, and date #1 and I went out
to the movies.Part
way through the movie - date #1 and I excused
ourselves and went to the bathroom where date #2 - who
looked like date #1 and was dressed identical to date
#1 - was waiting for us.
We made the exchange - slipped back into the movie.Which
worked out really good until after the movies - when
we got out to the parking lot -and my
date’s friend realized that date #2 wasn’t date #1.I did a lot
of apologizing for that one.
A vow is a solemn promise.The Greek word for “vow” is
“orkos”“Orkos”
is related to the word for “fence.”Invoking
God’s name added an additional boundary - an
additional weight - legitimacy - to the solemn promise
that was being made.
People today understand this - in kind of a twisted
way - the authority - reputation - of God’s name.At an early
age.They
learn it from their parents - other kids - relatives.God’s name
is powerful.That’s
why it gets used in conversation so much.“God this and God that.”“Jesus H.
this and Jesus H. that.”Giving
emphasis to what were saying, “I swear to God.”Or as an exclamation:“Oh my God.”
Its like identity theft.Remember those commercials where
some senior lady is talking in a deep male voice
racking up huge bills on some guy’s credit card?Have you
seen those?
Consciously or subconsciously we use God’s name to
invoke God’s authority - His reputation and character
- to cover our own inadequacies - to make what we’re
saying more seem powerful - more deserving of respect.
The people Jesus is talking to understood that the
vows which invoked God’s holy name - they were bound
by.They
had to fulfill - otherwise they were misusing the name
of the holy God - breaking God’s law.
So what the people did to get around this - the
deception - what Jesus is talking about here in verses
34 and 35 - was that they would swear by everything
else - heaven - earth - Jerusalem.“By heaven if you give me
your three chickens today next week I give you my
goat.”“As
sure as Jerusalem is there I promise to come and fix
your ox cart.”
All of which was non-binding - deception - lies -
because of course they hadn’t used God’s name.So they
were off the hook.
That may seem a little silly.“Hah.Hah.I swore by
heaven.Not
Yahweh.So
I’ve still got your goat.”
But think about that for today.
The endless fine print in contracts today is a sad
reminder that people do not trust each other.That one’s
oath - one’s promise - is non-binding unless bound by
reams of iron clad fine print legalese - which any
good lawyer - paid enough - can shred.
Isn’t this great.Every copy of Windows XP is 100% Safe -
Reliable - Secure.Guaranteed by Bill Gates himself.So who
needs Vista?Do
we really trust the ads we read?
Most politicians - not all - but it seems like most
politicians will make all kinds of promises to get
elected - even invoke God’s name.Show up a
churches acting all pious.Or now they show up at
synagogues and Mosques.Do people really believe them anyway?Aren’t we
all just a tad cynical about what most politicians
say?All
the rhetoric?Today,
someone keeping their word is only as important as the
benefit to them personally.
When we loose genuine respect for God any deception is
possible.
Jesus reminds us in verses 34 and 35 that all this
stuff people are vowing by is really God’s stuff:Heaven is
the throne of God.The earth is His footstool.Jerusalem
is His city.Vowing
by God’s stuff is still vowing by God - misusing His
name - disrespecting God and what it means to live in
a covenant relationship with Him.
Verse 36 is even more personal:“Nor shall you make an oath
by your head, for you cannot make one hair white or
black.”
How many of you dye your hair?You don’t
have to raise your hand.Underneath all that dye the hair
is still grey.Right?We can try
to deceive ourselves - or others - but ultimately if
its grey.Its
grey.
We can vow something.“I promise to pay you back.I promise
to change.I
promise never to do that again.”From the depth of who we are we
may honestly desire to fulfill that vow.But,
ultimately it’s only the sovereign God who can change
the core of who we are and what we’re able to do.
God knows what limits us.Knows what we struggle with.Knows what
will happen to us tomorrow.God is the one who controls
tomorrow and has orchestrated future history to
fulfill His promises.
Jesus’ point?Say
what we want.But ultimately
we must recognize that we’re accountable to God for
what we say.All
of this oathing and vowing and swearing has to do with
our relationship with the Almighty God - our
understanding of who we are before the holy sovereign
God - our respect of God.
Verse 37 - Jesus
drives His point home with a final application.So how do we live - knowing what
we know about living respecting God - how do we live
all that out in our relationships with people around
us?
Verse 37:But - instead of misusing God’s
name - let your statement be, ‘Yes, yes’ or ‘No, no’;
anything beyond these is of evil. - it leads us into misusing
God’s name.
Think about how these Old Testament laws - the ones
that Jesus is summarizing - think how those laws could
be put positively.“You shall make vows and fulfill them out of
respect for the Lord.Otherwise, don’t make vows.”
Have you heard this, “Say what you mean.Mean what you - what? say”?
Two challenges for us - by way of application.
First:There
are ways to swear using God’s name.Say that with me.“There are ways to swear
using God’s name.”Ways that don’t bring downGod’s
judgment and wrath and hell fire and brimstone.Ways that
respect God.
Three examples.
Deuteronomy 6:13 - “You
shall fear only the Lord your God; and you shall
worship Him and swear by His name.”Moses -
giving instructions to God’s people on how to swear.Swearing by
God’s name - tied to our fear of God - our respect of
God - our worship of God.If we’re going to use God’s
name, do it in a way that shows that we respect Him -
honor Him - value Him above all others.
Romans 1:9 - Paul, writing to the church in Rome:“For
God, whom I serve in my spirit in the preaching of the
gospel of His Son, is my witness as to how unceasingly
I make mention of you…”Do you hear the oath?“God
is my witness” “I swear to God.” - is
an understanding that our God is integrally concerned
with - orchestrates - passes judgment on how we live
our lives.
“I’m striving to live in obedience to the one God who
is worthy of serving.Who’s given purpose and value to my life.He knows
what I’m doing for you.”There’s respect there.
Third example - Revelation 10:5,6:“Then
the angel whom I saw standing on the sea and on the
land lifted up his right hand to heaven, and swore by
Him who lives forever and ever, who created heaven and
the things in it, and the earth and the things in it,
and the sea and the things in it, that there will be
delay no longer.”
Invoking God’s name - with respect for Him - giving
Him His rightful place - as creator - ruler -
possessor and sovereign over all that was - is - and
will be.That’s
respect.
This is a challenge for us.Elbow the person next to you and
tell them that, “This is a challenge for us.”
We all struggle with this.Church - hear this.If we say
we respect God on Sunday and then disrespect Him on
Monday - by what’s coming out of our mouth - then
we’re taking His name in vain.
If we sing words of worship on Sunday - “Jesus, Jesus, Jesus” - and on Monday we’re saying, “Me, me, me, me, me.”Doing what works best for us -
even lying and deceiving others to get our own way. That
disrespects God.
If we talk righteousness on Sunday - clean up our
speech and talk Church talk - with our Christian
siblings - and Monday we’re telling filthy jokes at
the office - or talking using four letter words - “God this and God that” - that’s disrespecting God.
If we’re pleading with God in prayer on Sunday - but
Monday what’s coming out of our mouth shows that our
hearts are not sold out to God - that’s disrespecting
God.
But, imagine if we went through our week with our
“Yes” meaning “Yes” and our “No” meaning “No” - just
telling it like it is.Who God is - respecting Him - honoring Him for
who He is - testifying of His grace and mercy and all
He’s done for us.Using His name to speak words of blessing and
righteousness and encouragement - words offered in
prayer for other.Honoring Him - lifting up His name.
Would that make a difference in our families and
schools and the people we work with?Would
people see something different in us?
What Jesus is teaching - here in the Sermon on the
Mount - is about God meeting us at the point where we
live our lives.Not about us earning a relationship with God.But about
God establishing our relationship with Him.
Not about rules and regulations so that somehow we
earn God’s favor or avoid His wrath.But about
the God who wants to pour out His love on us - to take
the burdens off our shoulders - to bring peace to our
hearts - to establish us and bless us and watch out
for us and heal us and care for us and guide and lead
us through life into eternity with Him.
What God is saying here is, “Respect Me.”That’s what people do in a
relationship.Its
not just the words we say.Its the characteristic of how we
live our lives with God.The people around us are
desperate to see that kind of relationship lived out -
spoken about - demonstrated in words which honor God
and bring His Gospel and healing into their lives.
That’s a challenge for us.Don’t misuse God’s name.Use it
respecting Him.
Second thought of application:We have an obligation to speak the truth.Repeat that with me, “We have an obligation to
speak the truth.”
We live in a society that rejects the idea of absolute
truth.In our schools - courts -
politics - community - we’re told to be tolerant - inclusive - open to
the experiences and beliefs of others.“Truth is
relative to how I experience life - a matter of perspective.” “Gay is okay.”“Marry
whoever or whatever you want.”“Never
question the beliefs - or faith journey of someone
else.”“God
is who I experience Him - or her - or it - to
be.”
You heard these?Or similar.
If there’s no absolute truth then lying and cheating
and deception is an expectation.Would you
agree with that?Do whatever it takes - say whatever you want -
lie to get ahead.As long as you don’t get caught it’s okay.And, if you
do get caught - lie.Blame someone else.
Pilate asked, “What is truth?” (John
18:38)Is
there an absolute truth?
What did Jesus say?John 14:6.Jesus said, “I am the way, and the-
what?truth, and
the life; no one comes to the Father, but by me.”
That’s an awesome
claim!Isn’t it?Jesus doesn’t say, “I show the way.I teach the
truth.I
give life.”Jesus isn’t just someone who
has a piece of a truth - someone with a different
perspective of spirituality - someone pointing the way
to some god.
Jesus makesthis absolute - dogmatic -
exclusive statement about
Himself that runs completely counter to our “inclusive” society of today.Many people
- even in the so-called church - stumble and struggle
over these words.But, these
words of Jesus mean absolutely what it sounds like
Jesus is claiming:
“There is no other way - no other truth - no other
life.When
you come to me you’re meeting God.You’ve found the ultimate
truth.When
you come to me you then and there possess life.”
As Christians - call us whatever you want - blind -
easily led - people with fruitcake between their ears
- we believe what Jesus said.That God
speaks truth.He
never lies. (Psalm 119:160)That Jesus is God’s truth in the
flesh.
We believe - because God’s word tells us - we believe
that humankind is more that just a freak accident of
some proteins and energy.We believe that God
values and cares for each one of us and that He will
give to us - even today - life with Him.
We believe God’s word when God says that Jesus Christ
is the means by which our sins are forgiven - that
through faith in Jesus and His work for us on the
cross - paying the penalty for our sins - that we can
know God.We
believe in the truth of the resurrection of Jesus and
that its possible to live in His triumph over death
and to spend eternity with God.
We believe that God speaks to us the truth of how
we’re to live before Him - what we need to know that
makes sense out of life.That in Him there’s healing for
our lives and purpose for our future.
We believe that there is right and wrong.That God
demands that we live in obedience to Him - to do what
is right - not because He’s some kind of cruel -
maniacal God - but because He loves us and desires
what is best for us.
We who know that there is absolute truth have an
obligation - in the midst of a society that Satan has
confused and deceived and lied to and is leading into
destruction - leading our families and neighbors and
anyone else he can get his claws on - leading them
into destruction - we have an obligation to speak
God’s truth to those around us - to challenge the lies
of the society in which we live.
People need to know Jesus who is the truth.Say that
with me, “People need to know Jesus who is truth.”
Remember Billy Joel?Listen to these words - and think about the
people we experience life with.
If you search for tenderness
It isn't hard to find
You can have the love you need to live
But if you look for truthfulness
You might just as well be blind
It always seems to be so hard to give
I can always find someone
To say they sympathize
If I wear my heart out on my sleeve
But I don't want some pretty face
To tell me pretty lies
All I want is someone to believe
When I'm deep inside of me
Don't be too concerned
I won't ask for nothin' while I'm gone
But when I want sincerity
Tell me where else can I turn
Because you're the only one that I depend on
Can we try singing this.I know its
strange singing Billy Joel in a Service of Worship.But - try
it with me…You
don’t want me to sing this alone.
Honesty is such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue
Honesty is hardly ever heard
And mostly what I need from you (1)
People need people who are
honest.People
who are the real deal.Who live out their lives based on what’s true.Who will
tell them the truth. People need to see in us - people in
relationship with the living God living out that
relationship in how we live with others - respecting
Him in what we say and do.
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1. Billy Joel, “Honesty” -
from his 52nd Street album - released 1980