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HOW TO REALLY SWEAR MATTHEW 5:33-37 Series: Thy Kingdom Come - Part Four Pastor Stephen Muncherian February 3, 2013 |
We are going on in our study of Jesus’
teaching - His Sermon on the Mount. This morning
we are looking at Jesus’ teaching about how to really
swear. Just for the sake of research I thought
this was interesting. (GOOGLE: "How To
Really Swear") Let’s be honest. The vast
majority of us someplace somewhere at some time have
had something come out of our mouths that would be
classified as swearing.
The reasons are tons. Its been
said that swearing is like honking the horn on our
car. Swearing
is used to get out a number of different emotions -
anger - frustration - joy - surprise. Sometimes
that comes out in ways that are more appropriate than
others. Are we together? What does Jesus say about swearing? Would you join me at Matthew 5 - starting
at verse 33. These
verses may be somewhat familiar. So, let’s
read them out loud together to get them fresh in our
minds. Then
we’ll go back - make some observations - and think
about how what Jesus is teaching can be helpful to us. Okay. Let’s read
these verses together.
Again you have heard that it was said to
those of old, ‘You shall not swear falsely, but shall
perform to the Lord what you have sworn.’ But I say to
you, Do not take an oath at all, either by heaven, for
it is the throne of God, or by the earth, for it is
His footstool, or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of
the great King. And
do not take an oath by your head for you cannot make
one hair white or black.
Let what you say be simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything
more than this comes from evil. Jesus is where? Out on a
hill by the Sea of Galilee talking to who? A large
diverse crowd of people.
People who were understandably stressed - doing
life in an occupied country with a government working
against them. They’re
subjugated. Overly
taxed. The
king is a psycho.
The culture is immoral. Life is
cruel - hard - often violent. Its been
pounded into them that even life with God is
oppressive - burdensome obligations. Jesus has been teaching that God has
blessed them - and us - with His presence. Teaching
about what it means to live in a relationship with the
Sovereign God - where God actually loves us - reaches
to us - to establish that relationship. A blessing
that these people - and we ourselves - are desperate
to experience in our lives. Jesus is taking the unimaginable - hard
to process - reality of God and His kingdom - and
bringing all that down to the heart level of where we
live our lives. What
does it mean for us to live with God in that kind of
relationship? At
the heart level in the day to day reality of our
lives. Coming to verses 33 to 37 - last Sunday
we noticed a pattern in Jesus’ teaching - that’s goes
on here in these verses.
A pattern that’s helping us to grab on to what
Jesus is getting at. First - Jesus quotes a commandment from
the Old Covenant law:
you have heard that it was said to
those of old - then He goes on to apply that
commandment with a teaching that deals with the heart
level of our relationship with others and - bottom
line - our heart level relationship with God. The “But I say to you” -
part.
Are we together? First observation. We need to
be clear on what Jesus is summarizing. Clear
on the meaning of the laws that Jesus is quoting and
summarizing in verse 33.
There are a number of these - the references
are on the screen and on your message notes. (c.f. Exodus
20:7; Leviticus
19:12; Numbers 30:2; Deuteronomy 23:21-23) What do all these mean? In other
words - if we were a first century Jew listening to
Jesus what could be going through our minds when we
heard Jesus summarize these laws. Names for
the Hebrews were a profound thing. Your name
was who you were - your reputation - the summary and
representation of your character. With a good
name you were respected.
With a bad name you were dishonored. In
Scripture, the “name” of God is the description of who
He is - God’s reputation - His character - His nature.
In the Bible there are a
number of different names for God that God uses to
reveal different aspects of His character or how He
deals with people - with us. The two most
significant are - do you remember these? Elohim - which describes the fullness of
God’s divine power.
And, Yahweh - which describes
God who is - absolute - unchangeable - holy. And
the God who always
has been - always is - and always will be - and is present with His people. Sometimes those two names are used
together - the Lord God - even more awesome to
consider. By the way - The name Jehovah comes from
Yahweh. Jehovah
is the Latinization of Yahweh. Yahweh is the name God uses when entering
into relationship with His people. When
God meets Moses at the burning bush, Moses says to
God, “You’re sending me back to Egypt to the
people of Israel to tell them that the God of your
fathers has sent me.
They’re going to ask me, ‘What is His name?’ What should
I tell them?” God
answers Moses - what? “I AM WHO I AM.” Same name - “I
AM” - “Yahweh.” (Exodus
3:13-15)
In the Ten Commandments - commandment
number three is what?
“You shall not take the name of
the Lord your God in vain, for the Lord will not hold
him guiltless who takes His name in vain.” (Exodus 20:7) Grab the names being used there. “You shall not take the name of the Lord
- Yahweh - your God - Elohim - in what?
vain, for the Lord -
Yahweh - will not hold him guiltless - meaning God is going to punish people -
who take His name in vain.” “Don’t use the name of your awesome -
almighty - relationship establishing - God in vain.” Vain - meaning: Don’t
trivialize God’s name.
Don’t misuse the name of God. God is holy
- separate - unique.
His name is to be holy - separate - unique. Don’t drag
God’s name down into the gutter - making it a word
just like every other word. Point being: When we
trivialize the name of God - we trivialize who God is. When we
misuse God’s name we disrespect God. God warns:
“Misuse My name and there’ll be
punishment.”
God takes the use of His name - the
description of who He is - God takes this very
seriously. Notice also who God is speaking to: “You shall not take the name of
the Lord your God in vain” - “your God.” He’s talking to His people. When a non-believer misuses God’s name it
bothers us. It
should. But
they don’t know God.
They don’t have a relationship with Him. When God’s
people misuse God’s name it disrespects God - trashes
the name - the character - the reputation of the God
who loved us so passionately that He sent only Son to
die in our place on the cross to establish our
relationship with Him. God’s people don’t trash God’s name. We’re to
respect God. To
honor Him. To
give our lives to Him.
God holds us accountable to respect Him. Bottom line - the third command and the
laws that Jesus is summarizing out on that hill - at
their heart level core they’re about respecting God. Misuse the name of God and we’re swearing
falsely. Swear
respecting God and we’re swearing Jesus’ way. HWJS - How
would Jesus swear? Respect God. Respect His
name. Let’s
say that together.
“Respect God. Respect His
name.” Going back to the people sitting on the
hill listening to Jesus - what they should be thinking
- to make a vow - using God’s name - Yahweh - the
almighty self-existent God who’s chosen to have a
relationship with us - to make a vow using God’s name
- and then break it - is disrespecting God -
punishable by God - a very very serious thing to be
avoided. The
second part of what Jesus teaches - Jesus’ application - is the “But I say to you” where
these laws apply to the day to day of where we live
our lives. You may have heard me share this. Years ago -
a lot of years ago - when I was as student at BIOLA U.
- there was a girl I wanted to take out on a date. But the only
way she would consent to go out with me was if she
could bring her friend.
Which meant that I had to find a date for this
other girl. I asked every guy I knew. Everyone had
something to do - most of it legitimate. A few had
cats to wash. The
best I could find was some guys who were available
early in the evening and some guys who could come
later. Which
I figured was good enough because I really wanted to
go out with this girl.
So I called her up and said, “I got a date for your friend. Let’s go
out.” At the time it seemed like such a little
deception with a big payoff - going out with this
girl. So this girl, her friend, and date #1 and
I went out to the movies. Part way
through the movie - date #1 and I excused ourselves
and went to the men’s room where date #2 - who looked
like date #1 and was dressed identical to date #1 -
was waiting for us. We made the exchange - slipped back into
the movie. Which
worked out really good until after the movie - when we
got out to the parking lot - and my
date’s friend realized that date #2 wasn’t date #1. Hard to imagine why she was upset by
that. She
got to go out with, not just one, but two dates in one
night. A vow is a solemn promise. The Greek
word for “vow” is “orkos” “Orkos” is
related to the word for “fence.” Invoking
God’s name added an additional boundary - a protection
against breaking the promise - an additional weight -
legitimacy - to the solemn promise that was being
made. People today understand this - in kind of
a twisted way - the authority - reputation - of God’s
name. At
an early age. They
learn it from their parents - other kids - relatives. God’s name
is powerful. That’s
why it gets used in conversation so much. “God this and God that.” “Jesus H.
this and Jesus H. that.” Giving
emphasis to what were saying, “I swear to God.” Or as an exclamation: “Oh my God.” OMG. Its
kinda like identity theft. Ever get one
of those emails?
“Dearest beloved in Christ. I’m sorry to
make your acquaintance.
I am the deceased widow of a very rich
ambassador to some country nobody has ever heard of
who left to me a very rich and I want to send it to
you the $500 trillion.
Please send it to me all your bank account
numbers and passwords.” Ever get one of those? Sounds
legit. Just
helping out a poor widow. Identity theft. Consciously or subconsciously when we
swear falsely - misuse God’s name - we make using
God’s name all about us and not about Him. Tooting our
own horn. We
invoke God’s authority - His reputation and character
- to cover our own inadequacies - to make what we’re
saying more seem powerful - more deserving of respect.
The people Jesus is teaching understood
that the vows - the promises - the commitments - that
they were making - which invoked God’s holy name -
that they were bound by those promises. They had to
fulfill them. Otherwise
they were misusing the name of the holy God - breaking
God’s law.
All of which was non-binding - deception
- lies - because of course they hadn’t used God’s
name. So
- they rationalized - they were off the hook. That may seem a little silly. “Hah.
Hah. I
swore by heaven.
Not Yahweh.
So I’ve still got your goat.” We have the same thing today. Its called
fine print. (Cartoon: Lawyer) “See?
I told you sharks don’t attack lawyers. It’s a
respect thing.” People don’t trust each other. One’s oath -
one’s promise - is non-binding unless bound by reams
of iron clad fine print legalese - which any good
lawyer - paid enough - can shred. (picture of Prop 401) This was Prop
401 - Tucson, Arizona.
Prop 401 is the answer! Streamline
City Government.
Cut Bureaucracy.
Improve Efficiency. Hold
Bureaucrats Accountable.
I love this one:
There is no tax increase. Hard not to be just a tad cynical. Right? By the way,
Prop 401 went down to defeat. (picture) This is who? Alex
Rodriquez. Baseball’s
highest paid star who’s name just happened to be on a
list of names of other Major League Baseballs stars -
listed as patrons of a Miami Clinic selling
performance enhancing drugs. Which of
course A-Rod denied using. (picture) Then there’s Mr. Armstrong. 7 time Tour
de France winner who finally came clean to Oprah
Winfrey - admitting that he used performance enhancing
drugs. Now
investigators are saying he lied during his
confession. What Jesus’ application was true then. Is
true today. Its
way too much a part of our society. Someone
keeping their word is only as important as the benefit
to them personally. When we loose genuine respect for God any
deception is possible. Jesus reminds us in verses 34 and 35 that
all this stuff people are vowing by ultimately is
really God’s stuff:
Heaven is the throne of God. The earth is
His footstool. Jerusalem
is His city. Vowing
by God’s stuff is still vowing by God - misusing His
name - disrespecting God and what it means to live in
a heart level relationship with Him. Verse 36 is even more personal: “And do not take an oath by your head for
you cannot make one hair white or black.”
We can vow something. “I promise to pay you back. I promise to
change. I
promise never to do that again.” We may even, from the depths of who we
are, we may honestly desire to fulfill that vow. But,
ultimately it’s only the sovereign God who governs
what we’re able to do.
When we make promises - vowing and swearing -
thinking that all this is about us - who’s fooling
who? God knows what limits us. Knows what
we struggle with.
Knows what will happen to us tomorrow. God is the
one who controls tomorrow and has orchestrated future
history to fulfill His promises. Jesus’ point? Say what we
want. But
ultimately we must recognize that we’re accountable to
God for what we say.
All of this oathing and vowing and swearing has
to do with our relationship with the Almighty God -
our heart level understanding of who we are before the
holy sovereign God - our respect of God. Verse 37 - is Jesus’ bottom line
application point.
How do we know if what’s coming out of us is
respecting God? Verse 37:
instead of misusing God’s name - Let what you say be simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything
more than this comes from evil - it leads to swearing falsely.
Jesus’ summary of all those laws and His
application - putting all that in a nut shell - giving
all that a positive spin: “You shall make vows and fulfill them out
of respect for the Lord.
Otherwise, don’t make vows.” Processing what Jesus is saying here - as
we get ready to head out into Mercedland - to watch
the Niners destroy the Ravens - if we’re hearing Jesus
- there are at least two major implications about a
heart level relationship with God that we need to grab
onto. How to really swear. First: Swear Respecting God. In
whatever commitments we make - in however we represent
ourselves - we need to respect God. Three examples of what that means. Deuteronomy 6:13 - “You shall fear only the Lord your
God; and you shall worship Him and swear by His name.” (NASB) Moses -
giving instructions to God’s people on how to swear. Swearing by
God’s name - tied to our fear of God - our respect of
God - our worship of God. If we’re
going to use God’s name, do it in a way that shows
that we respect Him - honor Him - value Him above all
others.
“I’m striving to live in obedience to the
one God who is worthy of serving. Who’s given
purpose and value to my life. He knows
what I’m doing for you.”
There’s respect
there. Third example - Revelation 10:5,6: “Then
the angel whom I saw standing on the sea and on the
land lifted up his right hand to heaven, and swore by
Him who lives forever and ever, who created heaven and
the things in it, and the earth and the things in it,
and the sea and the things in it, that there will be
delay no longer.”
(NASB) Invoking God’s name - with respect for
Him - giving Him His rightful place - as creator -
ruler - possessor and sovereign over all that was - is
- and will be. That’s
respect. That’s a challenge for us. Elbow the
person next to you and tell them: “That’s a challenge for us.” We all struggle with this. Church -
hear this. If
we say we respect God on Sunday and then disrespect
Him on Monday - by what’s coming out of our mouth -
then we’re taking His name in vain.
If we talk righteousness on Sunday -
clean up our speech and talk Church talk - with our
Christian siblings - and Monday we’re telling filthy
jokes at the office - or talking using four letter
words - “God this and God that”
- that’s disrespecting God. If we’re pleading with God in prayer on
Sunday - but Monday what’s coming out of our mouth
shows that our hearts are not sold out to God - that’s
disrespecting God. But, what would that be like? If we went
through our week with our “Yes” meaning “Yes” and our
“No” meaning “No.” If what’s coming out of our mouths and in
our actions - if all that was a genuine - a sincere -
consistent all about God testimony of Who God is -
respecting Him - honoring Him - testifying of His
grace and mercy and all He’s done for us. Using His
name to speak words of blessing and righteousness and
encouragement - words offered in prayer for others. Wouldn’t that make a difference in our
families and schools and the people we work with? Wouldn’t
people see something different in us? What Jesus is teaching - here in the
Sermon on the Mount - is about Yahweh - establishing
our relationship with Him. Yahweh who
wants to pour out His love on us - to take the burdens
off our shoulders - to bring peace to our hearts - to
establish us and bless us and watch out for us and
heal us and care for us and guide and lead us through
life into eternity with Him. What God is saying here is, “Respect Me.” That’s what people do in a relationship. Its not just
the words we say.
Its the characteristic of how we live our lives
with God - from our hearts out. That’s a challenge for us. Don’t misuse
God’s name. Use
it respecting Him.
What’s coming out of us needs to come from a
heart that respects God. Second application - How to really swear: Swear Respecting Others. We live in a society that rejects the
idea of absolute truth.
In our
schools - courts - politics - community - we’re
told to
be tolerant -
inclusive - open to the experiences and beliefs of
others. “Truth is
relative to how I experience life - a matter of perspective.” “Gay is okay.” “Marry
whoever or whatever you want.” “Never
question the beliefs - or faith journey of someone
else.” “God
is who I
experience Him - or her - or it - to be.” We’ve heard these? Or similar?
Pilate asked, “What is truth?” (John
18:38) Is
there an absolute truth? What did Jesus say? John 14:6. Jesus said,
“I am the
way, and the - what? truth, and
the life; no one comes to the Father except through Me.” That’s an awesome claim! Isn’t
it? Jesus doesn’t
say, “I show the way. I teach the
truth. I
give life.” Jesus isn’t just someone who has a piece
of a truth - someone with a different perspective of
spirituality - someone pointing the way to some god. Jesus makes this absolute - dogmatic -
exclusive statement about Himself that runs
completely counter to our “inclusive” society of today.
Many people - even in the so-called church -
stumble and struggle over these words. But, these words of Jesus
mean absolutely what it sounds like Jesus is claiming: “There is no other way - no
other truth - no other life. When you
come to me you’re meeting
God.
You’ve found the ultimate
truth. When
you come to me you then and there possess life.” As
Christians - call us whatever you want - blind -
easily led - people with fruitcake between their ears
- we believe what Jesus said. That God
speaks truth. He
never lies. (Psalm 119:160) That Jesus
is God’s truth in the flesh. We believe - because God’s word tells us
- we believe that humankind is more that just a freak
accident of some primordial ooze that accidentally got
zapped. We
believe that God values and cares for each one of us
and that He will give to us - even today - life with
Him. We believe God’s word when God says that
Jesus Christ is the only means by which our sins are
forgiven - that only through faith in Jesus and His
work for us on the cross - paying the penalty for our
sins - that we can know God. We believe
in the truth of the resurrection of Jesus and that its
possible to live in His triumph over death and to
spend eternity with God. We believe that God speaks to us the
truth of how we’re to live before Him - all of what we
need to know that makes sense out of life. That in Him
- in Jesus - there’s healing for our lives and purpose
for our future. We believe that there is right and wrong. That God
demands that we live in obedience to Him - to do what
is right - not because He’s some kind of cruel -
maniacal God - but because He loves us and desires
what is best for us - and that there are huge -
horrible - eternal consequences for those who do not
live in that God restored through Jesus relationship
with Him. We who know that there is absolute truth
have an obligation - in the midst of a society that
Satan has deluded and deceived and is leading into
destruction - leading our families and neighbors and
anyone else he can get his claws into - leading them
into destruction - we have an obligation to speak
God’s truth to those around us - to challenge the lies
of the society in which we live. People need to know Jesus who is the
truth. Amen? Remember Billy Joel? Listen to
these words - and think about the people we experience
life with. If you search for tenderness It isn't hard to find You can have the love you need to live But if you look for truthfulness You might just as well be blind It always seems to be so hard to give I can always find someone To say they sympathize If I wear my heart out on my sleeve But I don't want some pretty face To tell me pretty lies All I want is someone to believe When I'm deep inside of me Don't be too concerned I won't ask for nothin' while I'm gone But when I want sincerity Tell me where else can I turn Because you're the only one that I depend
on Sing this with me. You don’t
want me to sing this alone. If you have
your cell phone out maybe you can wave it. Honesty is such a lonely word Everyone is so untrue Honesty is hardly ever heard And mostly what I need from you (1) What those around us need to hear coming
out of our mouths is not us - or who we pretend to be
- little identity stealing gods unto ourselves. People need
people who are honest.
People who are the real deal. Who live out
their lives based on what’s true. Who -
because we respect God and what God says - will
respect others by telling them the truth about God and
how to know Him and live in a forever relationship
with Him starting even today.
1. Billy Joel,
“Honesty” - from his 52nd Street album - released 1980 Unless otherwise indicated, Scripture
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