A LOVE STORY RUTH 1:13-17 Series: The Characters of Christmas Pastor Stephen Muncherian December 25, 2005
Please turn
with me to the book of Ruth -
chapter 4 - starting at verse 13.This
morning I’d like to share a love story with you.One
that is worth being reminded of as we celebrate the
birth of Jesus.
Ruth 4:13:So Boaz
took Ruth, and
she became his wife, and he went in to her.And
the Lord enabled her to conceive, and she gave birth
to a son.
There are five statements in this verse that
describe the love story of Boaz and Ruth.
First Statement:Boaz
took Ruth.Say that with
me, “Boaz
took Ruth.”
Do you remember how this story goes?There
was a man by the name of Elimelech who was living in
Bethlehem with his
wife - Naomi - and his two sons - Mahlon and Chilion.There was a famine in Judah - so
Elimelech moves his
whole family to the land of Moab - east of the Dead
Sea.Which shows how
desperate they were.
The Moabites were the decendants of the
oldest of Lot’s two surviving daughters.After
the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah - Lot’s two
daughters got their
father Lot drunk - two nights in a row - so they could
have children by
him.From one daughter
came the Moabites
and from the other the Ammonites.So
the Moabites are descendants of Lot by
incest.
Moab through the years had been a bitter
enemy of Israel.Different
cultures.Different gods.Always
rivalry.Often bloody.For generations there’s been
conflict and hostility and
hatred between these two nations.It was a
pretty bold and desperate move for Elimelech - taking
his family to
Moab.
When they got to Moab - Elimelech dies and
Naomi is left alone with her two boys
- Mahlon and
Chilion.In time the boys
marrytwo Moabite women:Orpah
and Ruth.Hold onto to
that - Ruth is a Moabitess.She’s
got a
past - a stigma about her.
10 years go by
and then Mahlon and Chilion die.After
the famine is over Naomi decides to
return home to Bethlehem.Orpah
stays in
Moab with her family.Ruth
goes with Naomi
to Bethlehem
When they
get back to Bethlehem
- Ruth begins to
glean in the field of a man named Boaz.After the barley harvesters
finished picking
in the fields - Ruth would go out each day and collect
the barley that
had fallen on the ground.From
this left
over barley she and Naomi would have enough to eat.
Come to find out Boaz is a close relative of
Naomi.Which is important
- right?He is, what in
Hebrew is a “go’el.”Say
that with me, “go’el.”“Go’el”
means
“to redeem.”Or in Boaz’s
case - a
“kinsman redeemer.”
Back in Leviticus 25 God had established the
law of the kinsman redeemer.That
law said
that if a family fell into poverty - which was the
situation of Naomi
and Ruth - poverty where they would have to sell
everything or
themselves into slavery in order to survive - the
“go’el” was suppose
to step in on their behalf and buy everything back -
redeem it - so
that nothing would be lost. (Leviticus 25:23 ff)
In a similar way - God had established a law
that - if a married man died without children - a
brother or another
near relative of the deceased man - was to produce
children by the
widow.In this case -
Ruth.The children then
would be raised as the children of the
deceased husband - being considered the children of
the deceased man -
not the brother.Are we
tracking on that?The
brother - the kinsman - would redeem the
widow - “go’el” her - along with the family name and
property - so that
nothing would be lost. (Genesis 38:8,9; Deuteronomy
25:5-10)
The statement here in verse 13 tells us that
Boaz did that for Ruth.Boaz
took Ruth.A woman who
began life as a foreigner - in the
hated land of Moab - living as an idolater apart from
God - a childless
impoverished widow.Boaz
takes her away
from all that.She’s set
free from her
past - set free in the present - given a future - by
her “go’el.”
Second statement:She
became his
wife.Say
that with me, “She
became his wife.”
The law of the kinsman redeemer required the
“go’el” to acquire the widow and have a child by her.Marriage was not required.This
all could have been taken care of in a formal - legal
- manner.But, Ruth
becomes Boaz’s wife.
Boaz falls head over heels in love with Ruth.He didn’t just do the
minimum to get by.He
loved her.He
gives her his heart.He
brings her into
his home.He honors her.She becomes his partner in
marriage.When
they walked through town they were arm in arm.She
is esteemed and respected as his wife.There’s
romance here.
“Ahhhh.”Try that, “Ahhhh.”After all, this is a
love story.
Third Statement:He
went in to her.Say that with
me, “He went
in to her.”
That’s the Bible’s “G” rated way of saying
they were intimate.Maybe
that’s obvious.They’re
husband and wife.Of
course they were intimate.
The writer is making a point - emphasizing it
so that we take time to dwell on it.The
coming together is not just a legal marriage.Boaz
loves Ruth.And, Ruth
also loves Boaz.Even
beyond that - there’s openness and trust
in their relationship.Nothing
between
them.No barriers to
intimacy.Depth of
relationship - oneness.
Fourth Statement:The
Lord enabled
her to conceive.Try this, “The Lord
enabled her to
conceive.”
God steers Ruth into Boaz’s field.Arranges the circumstances of their meeting.God gives Ruth a child.When
Ruth had been married before - for at least 10 years -
and she hadn’t
produced a child.Now,
the childless widow
conceives.Behind all
this is God at work.Bringing
these two together at the right time
in the right place.
God is at work here.It’s
no coincidence that all this takes place in Bethlehem.That both Boaz and Ruth are
listed in Matthew’s genealogy
of Jesus - also born in Bethlehem - is not mere
chance.God is showing us
something in this love story.Something
about Himself.Boaz
is given to us as an example of Jesus - who is our
kinsman redeemer -
buying us back - saving what was lost.
Fifth Statement:She
gave birth to
a son.Together, “She
gave birth to a son.”
Boaz takes a wife.Gives
his heart to her.They
are in love.A child is
born.The
grandfather of King David.A
new
generation - a posterity.A
future and a
hope.
Verse 14:Then the
women said to
Naomi, “Blessed is the Lord who has not left you
without a redeemer
today, and may his name become famous in Israel.May
he also be to you a restorer of life and a sustainer
of your old age;
for your daughter-in-law, who loves you and is better
to you than seven
sons, has given birth to him.”
“It was the best of times.It
was the - what?worst of
times.”The
glass is either half empty or - what?Half
full.It all depends on
how we look at it.Sometimes
we wonder if there’s a glass.That
was Naomi.
The book of Ruth takes place during the time
of the Judges.Remember
when we looked at
that?Heroes Of Faith?Remember how we saw that
during the time of the Judges
there were these seven cycles of sin?
First what?Israel
would sin in the sight of God - idolatry - paganism -
immorality.Second, God
would send punishment - war -
captivity.Something to
get His people to
turn back to Him.Third,
Israel would cry
out to God.Fourth, God
would send a Judge
- someone to deliver them.Fifth,
Israel
would enter a time of peace and rest.
Each time through the cycle things got worse
- God’s people moving farther away from God - going
deeper into sin.Each
punishment would get more severe.The whole of Judges is a descent into
failure and defeat and depravity.In many
ways like today.
Having fled the famine in her own land, Naomi
is left in Moab with her two daughters-in-law.She
has no real support.No
future.When she returns
to Bethlehem - without sons -
a Moabitess in tow - she’s greeted at the gate by the
women of the town.They
ask, “Is this Naomi?This
is not the same Naomi who left here ten
years ago.”
Naomi responds to them, “Do not
call me Naomi;
call me Mara -
meaning bitter - for the Almighty has
dealt very bitterly with me.I
went out
full, but the Lord has brought me back empty...the
Almighty has
afflicted me.”
(Ruth 1:20-22)
During this time of depravity - evil - Naomi’
comes back to Bethlehem.She’s
crying out.She’s broken.She’s
lonely.Thinking only
about what she’s
lost.She’s angry at God.Bitter.In her mind, the
worst of times.
Remember these words?Ruth
speaking
to Naomi, “Where you go, I will go,
and where you lodge, I will lodge.Your
people shall be my people, and your God, my God.Where
you die, I will die, and there I will be buried.Thus
may the Lord do to me, and worse, if anything but
death parts you and
me.” (Ruth
1:16,17)
Ruth - on the other hand - has encountered
the living God.In the
midst of the worst
of times - she’s been pursuing God’s will for her -
trusting Him -
following Him - even leaving behind her own people -
their customs and
their gods.For Ruth -
the best of times.In
Bethlehem she finds love - given by God
through Boaz.
That makes these words - here in verses 14
and 15 - all the more significant.
“Naomi, think about how
good Ruth has been to you - better than seven sons.She’s stuck to you like
glue.She’s
been there for you..Naomi,
think about
how God has blessed you through her.He’s
even given you this child - a future.”
Naomi has a redeemer who gives her hope and a
future.And she has a
choice - as Ruth had
a choice - how to respond.The
worst of
times or the best of times?
Verse 16:Then
Naomi took the child
and laid him in her lap, and became his nurse.The
neighbor women gave him a name, saying, “A son has
been born to Naomi!So
they named him Obed - servant of the Lord - He is the
father of
Jesse, the father of David -ancestor of the Redeemer -
Jesus
Christmas - when we get past all the things
of Christmas - Christmas-ultimately
- is
a love story.God loving
us.
We all have a past - sins - wounds.We all live in the present.We all have circumstances that surround our
lives.We all crave a
future - either here or in
eternity.We all need the
Redeemer.This baby born
in Bethlehem - who’s birth we
celebrate today.
Like Naomi - like Ruth - each of us has a
choice - every day - even now.To
live in
the past - wondering if there is forgiveness and
healing.To look at our
circumstances and become bitter.To
wonder if there is a future and if God has
turned against us.Or to
embrace our
Redeemer.To give ourselves
to Him and
allow Him to buy us back from our sin.To
lavish us within His love.To
give us a
future with Him.